As a formerly fat woman who had a major glow up a few years ago, I’ve received tons of compliments from men about my “personality”, how “ambitious” I am despite working the same job for the last 5 years. I am treated significantly better in my new relationship and the guy I am with is over-eager to commit. It’s truly fascinating how men work…

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Aren’t women the same?

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Yeah and tons of men date fat women as well.

It’s an evolutionary thing. Men are wired to be drawn to looks, women are wired to be drawn to resourcefulness (money). It’s an over simplification, but the best way for a women to draw in men is to lose weight and look physically more attractive and for men it’s to have sizable wealth and income.

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No lies

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Same things happens with men who see an increase in income in a short period of time despite looking the exact same

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Women absolutely do the same thing.
As someone who got bad narcissistic relationship fat. Once I was free and dropped 40lbs, smiled and was social again like I was previously. I got noticed again more then I was in a relationship. It just happens.

I bet with your weight loss, your are happier ans more self confident. That shows more then weight loss to people who pay attention more then weight loss.

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A lot of it is attitude, Confident people of any size are more appealing.

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