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Yeah. I’m a pretty private person to start with and don’t want to be thought of first as “the gay guy”. So I don’t really say anything. And just brush off questions like that. Usually people ask “are you married?” And the answer is “no”. Then “do you have a GF?” And the answer is “no” and they just assume I’m single. But then after a while it’s a bit awkward to bring up that I have a BF. As if it’s something I have been hiding. Which is sort of true. I think you can just mention it casually if someone asks “what are you and your GF doing this weekend?” You can just say “oh, my BF and I are going whitewater rafting this weekend “. And word will get out.
Think they need a little more training on "blind spots"
I think you should be able to bring your authentic self to work. You might be surprised how accepting people can be.
Life is much too short to spend it in the closet. I have been so out at work that I might as well have had “gay” stamped on my forehead. Nobody cares. You can talk about your significant other, and nobody will care.
Same. Just moved to a new apartment and everyone is like “met any ladies yet?”
Great! Agree, you don’t need to “announce” anything.
Feel the same way OP!
@ RSM user 1; I do bring my true self to work. I don't see why I need to go about announcing my sexuality in order to do so.
I'm not worried about not being accepted but I know it's going to make certain feel bad once I tell them since they've been asking about men for two years now.
Everyone thinks my roommate and I are dating but then also thinks I’m gay so I usually just say oh we have an open and accepting relationship and walk away. It’s good to have a little mystery
I’ve struggled with this myself. Some people know. But mostly I don’t think it’s anyone’s business.
I did this too. Never explicitly said "no, I'm a lesbian" when people asked about guys. I would just say "no" because it's a non-issue. But now I feel like I'm to far in and people think I'm straight. It's been two years and I feel like a fraud every time something comes up about this.
Lol
I think in general people (some people) pounce on insecurities. It doesn't matter what the insecurity is- fear of judgement due to sexual preference. Bottom line, if you're not insecure, people won't act as funny.