Day three of a norovirus outbreak in our house. 3 kids and 1 wife down for the count. Dad playing nurse and lawyer simultaneously impossible. Clients can wait.

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Update: All three kids and the wife are better. I managed to escape unharmed (other than the 50 loads of laundry).

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You sir deserve a medal of honor

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That's no joke. I got it in January and for 24 hours thought I might die. Son only vomited once and rest of house avoided it. Good luck and God speed to you

YIKES. You know it means you will be next…ugh. I’m sorry!

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