Does anyone have ADHD coach recommendations specifically for lawyers and/or tips for some issues I’m having? I have done therapy and it helped with thought patterns that were exacerbating my stress and in turn making my symptoms worse. But now that I’ve moved past that, I think I need help working to fix some very targeted executive functioning issues I’m noticing, namely: (1) task initiation for boring, overwhelming, or complicated tasks; (cont’d in comments….)

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(2) prioritization (I will do the shiny fun thing instead of the boring thing with the deadline); and (3) boundaries (I overwork when I have a lot of fun/exciting/urgent projects, then wallow in paralysis when my to do list is normal).

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Would love to hear these recs

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It’s all about tricking the ADHD goblin brain. He’s the head, but I’m the neck. I tell him we’re gonna do what he wants (being a lazy POS) but I make it more difficult than to just do the task he’s trying to avoid. That builds up momentum. Once I got that I’m unstoppable.

“We’re not gonna do that boring task today. We’re gonna procrastinate! Lemme just see what it entails so I know how long it takes so I know when the latest we can start is…

oh I need to involve (ABC) for this. Guess I’ll just throw a reminder on my calendar to bug ABC about 123 by deadline. Ok, well I’m here I’m going to make that full list of 123 so I don’t have to do it later. Ok got it, now time to make calendar reminders to bug ABC and to put it on the to do list. That’s so tedious though… screw it, I have it right in front of me, it’ll take LESS time to just shoot it out right now than it would to put it on the to do list…

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It’s all about steering into the skid. Gotta find those little tricks that work. Social media ADHD pages are a good source of lifehacks

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I'd also appreciate coaching recommendations. I've interviewed several coaches, but most were former lawyers with ADHD who left the profession. They often seem bitter about lawyering and Biglaw, which doesn't align with what I'm looking for. I enjoy my work; I just want to minimize the confusion and disorganization. The lawyer-specific coaches don’t really seem to get that

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Thank you for sharing this perspective. I hadn’t thought about that. I think the coach I would like to use does not necessarily have to have been a lawyer, but I would appreciate finding someone who has experience working with lawyers because they might understand the odd nature of this job more. Totally agree with you about liking this job and just wanting minimize the confusion and disorganization

Following because I would also love to find someone who can help me with the exact same issues. You are not alone!

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Great idea! Thank you for doing that and sharing.

Following because I tried someone who was awful. She wasn’t a former lawyer. I felt cheated. Paid her $200 an hour for basically nothing, and she’d loudly eat salads and talk with her mouth full on camera and scold her children during our zoom meeting. Her advice wasn’t helpful either. “Try out different colored pens. Leave your office (not home office but real office) during the day and try to go work somewhere else during your lunch break.” Overall just parroted back things about ADHD that anyone in this bowl would know without practical advice and told me my job is awful (gee, thanks. already knew that.)

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Thank you for this. I sent you a DM

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