Found out I’m 9 weeks pregnant with a 7 month old… any advise ? I’m 38, WFH, still breastfeeding mainly at night.. These symptoms are kicking my butt

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I was 6 weeks pregnant with my first one being 7 month old. The only thing I would say is spend as much time as possible with the little one. Once I started feeling heavy, u couldn’t carry my older one and now he has become Papa’s boy.

Anyway I needed to stop breastfeeding since my cervix came out to be small due to pregnancies being so close. Good to get that checked.

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No harness. He hates all kinds of carriers.

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Make sure your little one is good on a bottle or start practicing now.

My friend's supply dropped hard in her second trimester (which apparently is common) and her baby was 0% on bottles and was not eating much solids yet at 11 months. It was very very tough time for them. They tried bottles, straws, more solids, and she would just refuse everything and lost a lot of weight until she figured it out. It was stressful for everyone.

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Congrats and good luck OP, same age with a 4 month old and will probably also just let the second one happen so I can be done.

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