Had a nightmare about missing a critical deadline and woke up in a cold sweat. That work stress is leaking into my dreams... any hacks on stopping it?

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Hit the gym regularly. Helps relieve stress and makes you feel better in general

Meditate before bed and clear your mind!

How long have you dealt with this? Maybe it is time to cut back some work load or look for a new job.

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