Having fwb from past .5 year. Confused whether to go ahead with marrying or not.
Can someone throw light on pro and cons.
We are very good actors no one have guessed it till now 😘 me and my baby are rocking. Takes good care of me, support me inside and outside office
Is .5 year enough to know if this is attractions or love?

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If you both have genuine feelings in terms of love, care, affection etc, then you should think about marriage. Else, just continue with casual only.

How can I test him?

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