Heart attacks for folks under the age of 40 is getting so common. Where are we headed? Why is there so much stress in the world? Just received a new of one of the former senior manager passed away due to a massive heart attack. Early 40s. I am at loss of words. Such a genius of a guy. Amongst the most hard working people I have come across. I still can’t believe the news. Cannot even fathom what his family might be going through.

Hi fishes,
Want some feedback for Employees Assistant Program (EAP) by Capgemini which provides facilities to connect with Therapist.
Actually I am going through some tough times(going through a divorce), want to connect to EAP to discuss my mental health issues.
I had connected once and they say that the conversations are strictly confidential.
Just wanted to know do they really keeps stuff confidential or can they inform my Manager regarding the personal conversations.

I think I have ADHD. I’m middle-aged. This has never been a problem for me before, but I’ve taken several screening tests and I’m scoring really high. What do I do?

Did anyone have better luck getting pregnant after losing weight? I could stand to lose some weight (not obese), and am wondering if I should just focus on that or push ahead with Clomid.

20/8
Upper body day! Injury is recovering well so was able to push a bit more. Feeling good (and tired!)

Just got made redundant today, it comes by surprise I didn’t really see it coming. Now I’m lost. And I’m on Singapore with working visa until christmas. I can’t go back yet. I am depressed.

4th failed IUI today. Disappointed and depressed. How many before make the move to IVF?

Anyone have any Back/Spine specialist recommendations in the ~Central Austin area? Needing a second opinion beyond my ortho and curious where people have had positive experiences.

how do you know you're in love? like for real ?

Can anyone recommend a good cosmetic Dentist in Chicago? Looking to get some veneers for a few top front teeth that keep chipping.

I recently moved out of my apartment that had a Peloton in the gym. Haven’t gotten back into cardio like that and considering buying. Anybody have any pros/cons of purchasing?

Am local for a bit while husband is traveling for work -- our place feels so lonely without him and I really appreciate him so much for putting up with my schedule!

Does anyone have contamination OCD? I just got diagnosed even though I’ve been dealing with the symptoms for years and didn’t realize it was such an issue. How is your experience?

Have any guys has a p shot done and if so would you recommend? Considering it to increase sensitivity

Joining ACN and thinking about moving to DC. Thing is I don’t know a soul there. I’ll be traveling so worried about making friends. For people that made the same move, how’s your exp been? cont’d..

Ugh, is that time of year again! Does anyone have any advice on how to handle "friends" and family members who spout conspiracy theories to avoid getting the flu shot

Anybody here know if any good workout that works on your oblique fat? I’m in decent athletic shape but can’t seem to get rid of my oblique fat no matter how intensely I work out.

Anyone constantly fighting to stay sane? I’d like to believe everyone is the same as me. But my life is literally up and down from highs to lows. And that instability coupled with many failed relationships has me always anxious. Please understand, I don’t want advice, I have gotten plenty. Just want to know how many relate and how you personally deal? 🙂

I ve been in Houston for like 8 months now. I am introverted, and I live by myself. I literally have no friends here outside of the folks I talk to at work.
I need help.

How do you do weekly therapy while working full time? I'm looking to start and have a potential reoccurring evening appointment, but it would still require me to leave the office by 5 once a week.

I just had a tough day any self care tips.

My friend joined Capgemini recently as a test lead and they put him a project which is on its worst ever stage and people are always resigning from this project. He tried managing but everything is scattered and now his mental health is also disturbed. He asked for release but project manager said he will give PIP. What should he do ? Should he contact hrbp or any other way?

Is it still worth to get lexus 2021 nx300 when 2022 is fully redesigned and got all new tech.
The dealer is giving 3k off msrp.

Can we consider cars from the 90s to be classics?

Sub question: what's your favorite 90s-era car? Extra points for pics.

What additional (not public) information can you get from schools once admitted? I’m thinking detailed recruiting data not published in the employment report

New to ofc… no Frnd’s at c2 Bangalore location…. Team is distributed across diff locations.. Ping me if in same boat and want to catch up.,..

Hi guys ,

Anyone staying near Marathahalli and travelling to Divyashree Technopolis Deloitte Support Services? Please suggest me how to get there?

Struggling with a friendship that has become toxic & fills me with anxiety. various factors have caused us to drift but it feels like nothing I say or do now is right. The issues seem to really come to a head for one when she is drunk, using it to air grievances with me. When sober she doesn’t feel like talking about it. It feels like we are pretending to be best friends because of history but the substance isn’t there and I just want out of it. Can anyone offer advice?

Thoughts on Micromass?

What should be the designation for 11+ exp in Oracle India?

Do you know what is the worst and heart burning job in this IT world????

Being a HR earning peanuts and giving every Tom ,Dick and Harry 20 plus offer letters .....need to know actual HRs opinion on this ?

I have an offer with service now with 21 lpa fixed + 2 lpa variable + shares+ sign on bonus and quest with 21 lpa fixed+ bonus .which is the good option .In service now for few months i should work as AEM tester and in Quest IT IS qlQA Automation Lead

Resigned from TCS and LWD was a week ago. I received August's salary credited to my account. I cannot find the payslip in Alumni Portal.
Any idea when will I get August's payslip in Alumni Portal.?

Any recommendations for bots, or anyone used Covesting yet?

Does anyone have any ideas on an app to use for communicating with parents? I've googled so much and there are so many. Any thoughts would be helpful, but keep in mind I am a Preschool teacher!! Thanks in advance 😁

How important are titles to you?

Would you switch jobs for more pay but a change in title that is not higher?

I have 3 years experience in Email and Chat Support. I recently took a course for Data Science since I want to work as an analyst. I have knowledge on SQL, Python, Tableau/Power BI.
Looking for internship opportunity. Not worried about salary as of now but looking forward for experience and chance for full time role post the 2 or 3 months internship.

Please help me out!

Job interviews are competition between candidates who are most qualified and those who most willing to be paid the lowest salaries.

#motivateyourself #motivatedmindset #motivated #knowyourself #management

Which platform is best to ask software related questions?

Stack overflow only allow coding questions and quora doesn't allow multiple sentence etc

Any easy way to withdraw funds from credit cards without paying any additional charges?

Anyone has any idea?

When consultants say they work 70 hrs a week, do they include the traveling time in that number? Or is it 70 hrs of actual client work i.e. excluding travel, admin work etc.?

Do you submit resumes in pdf format or word?

KGS offered me 21 fixed but I told them initially to give 25 fixed which they denied. I am thinking to reject the offer. Is there any chance they will renegotiate and offer me what I need after I reject their offer? YOE 7

How long does BCG take to tell you the results of round 1 for an associate role? If you have gone via the referral route and they are coordinating between two offices

Hi Techies,

I am a manager planning be a part of oracle Bengaluru , I like to know whether it is a good company to join ? because my preference is to have good wlb and work in latest technologies. Pay is not a concern to me. Please share your opinion.

I had my first interview round with BCG today. The interview lasted only 25 mins. Not sure what to make of it. I felt it went alright though there were some aspects of the case I couldn't answer. Any insights guys?

HELP!!!

Good day!

Looking for a referral in product based company or new startup company, helping hand would be much appreciated. Thanks!

Skill set- windows server admin & VMware architect along with other skills like active directory admin, nutanix mgmt, dhcp, dns, gpo mgmt, scom patching, sccm, network troubleshooting, storage mgmt and etc.

Service notice, lwd is March 7th.

Thanks.

Till what age you want to work in indian IT industry?
Are you scared of not having much opportunities at the age of 45-50 in our IT industry, i.e after having 20-25 years of experience? Is this fear true ?

Please suggest some names of product based IT(or SaaS) companies which are very convenient for a new father/mother.

With a newborn baby at home -
which product IT companies could be best in terms of:
1. extremely relaxed work load
2. high degree of flexibility
3. full chill out/elastic delivery timelines
4. overall 9to5-ish tendency across the culture
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P.S. - learning, meaning/passion, growth, hustle, ikigai etc. is not my priority now! Ease, comfort & stability are my needs. Thanks!

I am having an offer from HCL 21lpa(18.5fixed)/8.5yoe devops.
Is HCL really that bad from all the posts I see here. Or should I start looking out for another offer.

How can I enter into a cloud profile. Any tips I want to do a job in cloud domain.