Hello! I am a newly hired community manager. I'm also the youngest member in the company. What are the best ways to fit in with my co-workers? Especially because the age gaps are like 10-15 years apart, so I can't really relate with most of their interests and conversation topics.

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Sometimes there is no way to truly fit in with a group and it's okay, especially if there's an age gap. The more you get to know them, the higher the chance that you might actually find some common interests and hobbies. Just remember to treat them with respect, even if their opinions differ from yours.

I just go to work to do my work. I don't tend to make friends at work. I am there to do my job and go home. I keep my work life separate from my personal life. That is just me though.

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