Hi fellow men,
If my feelings are one-sided, then should I block my crush or should I be in contact with her?
I want to move on as quickly as possible and get rid of the feelings that I have for her. Will blocking her help or will it make me miss her even more?
Please help.

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Contact me rho.
Usme feelings paida kro.
Then date her and kro uske sath jo Krna hai

likeuplifting

Time will heal everything. U live in the real world and understand that girl is not gng to like u out of nowhere. Girls are immune to this, especially who had a number of confessions

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No need to contact her because if it is only you who feels that way then she will reject you and that will be problematic for you not for her. These are your feelings,.with time let them subside. Focus on yourself or be involved in some activity. Congratulations for asking this in the correct bowl.

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Bhai....don't block. Just reduce conversation from your end. Reply late..bhav nahi do.
In your free time do other things..... fishbowl mein bawali Karo..Netflix dekho....gym wagera mein Mann Lage to kar lo....ghumne jao...insta mein mast picture wagera dalo.
Mann dekhna badiya ho jayega....tab lagega faltu uske piche pare hue the ..aur wo bhaw Dene lagi to dekhna tumhe baad mein use reply karne ka Mann bhi nhi karega.

Mere saath aisa ho chuka hai...just follow the above suggestions if you wish ....i believe it will work. Kuch weeks baad batana ki kaam kiya ki nahi yeh upay...all the best!!

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Don't contact her.
If she contacts you, tell her that you are not interested in friendship. If she can be more than that then it's fine. If she still doesn't give you clear picture and remains in contact, run as fast as you can.

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Yes, need to do this only now. 👍🏽

I had this feeling for someone. Friend rehkar kuch khas ukahada nahi maine. Socha kabhi toh bataunga usko. Jab bataya tab tak iska aur koi boyfriend tha. Tab bahut bura laga Aaj apne pe hasi aati hai. Now i am married to the most amazing person who cares for me.

Don't hang by the thread of hope, you deserve to be loved and cared by someone worthwhile.

Personally I blocked that girl and have no regrets about it!

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Badhai ho bhai 🥳

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Block her.

Only be serious with the girl who is into you and can can get into her. Read it again till you understand

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Wah bhai...kya baat boli hai apne.😹😹

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Bhai success is the best revenge/answer. Don't block her. Go to the gym, earn more money and then travel. Fill your insta with stories and posts of you enjoying life. Don't reply to her messages. Archive ya mute karlo. Insta pe you can restrict as well.

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Even I like(d) a girl, and it was one-sided. I never told her, and it's been a long time now. Time is the only solution....

😔😔

Bhai block krne se kudko he hurt krega… ignore mar agr usko lgega kuch toh khud chlke aegi

Block usko kiya jata b jisse lge ki usse samne vale ko farak padta h agr uss bandi ko farak he nhi padta toh bhai esa ban ki usko farak padne lge.. Work on yourself.. Go to gym work hard, earn money and rest the things will follow you.. Block krne ka kam bache krte h

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