How do you avoid getting sucked into office gossip and general coworker negativity?

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Believe it or not, office gossip and coworkers voicing their displeasure is considered “bonding”. The best advice I can give to you is just listen or walk away quietly if you need to.

Agency life it like high school. You’ve got the cool kids and the dorks, except everyone just got older.

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So much like high school, from the juniors to the c-suite, er’body talks shit. You probably won’t be able to change it so the above advice is solid.

Pretend I don’t speak English

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Just realize the people gossiping treat work as life. When you have a healthy relationship with your job, you have no time or energy or care to make personal opinions about your coworkers. However in our industry, when we’re working the crazy hours that we do, life tends to bleed into our work, and naturally our opinions get into everything we touch. The people gossiping probably work long hours, and don’t have much else to do in their life. That’s just what I’ve always experienced

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I wouldn’t say they are all miserable. They are just engrained in the work way too deep. They did it to themselves though, because they prioritize it.

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Work from home more 🤷🏻

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I came here to say exactly this.

Pretend to be autistic

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Who’s pretending

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You can be the person they want to hang out with when they get tired of feeling negative

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Don’t. Embrace it. Let it consume you!

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Actually lol’d

Be married and have kids

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Be that boring person who brings the subject back to work.

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Work from home and avoid co-workers when I do have to go to the office.

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Work from home life saves me from so much office social draining ass CRAP I don’t have to deal with

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Just do more listening

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Be there but don’t talk.

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Why in the world would I want to miss the office gossip. The more scandalous the better.

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Have a life outside of work.

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Get a hobby

or a life

Be the boss 👌🏽

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