How do you respond back when your coworkers compliment your appearance on Zoom calls and how good you look in profile pics? male here 🙃

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“Thanks for commenting on my physical appearance in this public forum. I guess it’s my turn. Your nose looks weird.”

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“Finally someone agrees with my Mom”

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“I’m flattered. Let’s move forward!”

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Ok, I’ll admit that I give and receive compliments of the “Your haircut looks good” or “I like that shirt” variety on occasion, and I hope that’s never offended anyone.

If the compliment is innocuous and there’s nothing else inappropriate about the situation, I’d probably just say thank you and move on. If it does make you uncomfortable (i.e., the same person commenting on your appearance every day, or the nature or tone of the compliments isn’t appropriate for work), either speak with them privately and ask them to stop, or if that’s not advisable or doesn’t work, talk with your coach or HR about it.

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Have you tried getting fat?

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Are your coworkers M,F, or other?

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Let’s see your profile pic then

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Thank you?

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If it’s occasional and on days when you maybe put extra effort into your appearance. Say thank you and move on. If it’s repetitive or doesn’t align with your efforts, tell them the comments make you feel uncomfortable.

This is how a professional handles it.

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Channel your inner Agatha

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I blush, giggle a little bit, and say "oh stop it"

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If you work at Cognizant you don’t need to worry about this happening.

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“Yeah, I showered today”

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Exactly

The camera loves you. Own it.

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Get that phone number and get to work young man, this ain’t rocket science. You just got the green light... 🧐

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Do you also receive similar compliments on real life?

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OP, ignore others. You seem to be a looker, enjoy the attention. Wish I had you around my team as well

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Why is this a post?

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“What? These hair? Yeah, I grow them myself. Thank you very much”

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Throw cottonballs at him/her on the screen

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“Thank you so much! Please keep feeding my ego!”

Honestly making jokes of it while also saying thank you is my favorite way to go, especially if I am leading a meeting and someone compliments me (I’m on video a lot). It’s a good Segway to pivot into an actual conversation if you know what you’re doing.

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Well then... Let’s get it on (in a deep voice).

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Male here too, I showed my face in a meeting for the first time in a while and my manager female said “oh you look so handsome”. No 🧢 . It was awkward but I just smiled and said thank you not a big deal. This is a slight flex but advice

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