How does everyone deal with rude office mates? There is a guy who puffs on his vape all day and the smell makes me nauseous, what should I do?

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They’re vaping inside? That’s never allowed.

I would tell him straight. But if you’re not comfortable doing that, you should be able to talk to your line manager about it who should be able to deal with it. I didn’t think vaping was legal inside offices?

That's easy, you say "I'm sorry to impose on you but the smell of your vape makes me feel nauseated. Would you mind going outside to vape? If that's not comfortable for you, I can ask management to switch my location."

People will do as much as they can get away with until you ask them to change.

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