I live with roommates in San Francisco and am in my late 20s. I want to move into my own place soon, but nice 1 bedrooms in good locations are $3.5k+ a month here. This feels ridiculous to spend so much on rent that disappears into thin air every month. If I can afford to pay a downpayment, does it make sense for me to buy a place to live in? I don’t plan to be here long term necessarily— I may decide to move in 2 years or I might stay. Cont. in comments

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Can you afford to buy in the city? Remember that besides mortgage, your monthly expense will also include property tax, homeowners insurance, and probably PMI, none of which are investments. Plus you pay for a lot more maintenance as a homeowner (I’m a new-ish homeowner, so these things are top of mind for me). I feel you though, I think by your 20s you should have/want your own place. Have you considered moving outside SF, maybe even just to the East bay? Full disclosure, owning a home was really important to me (I’m a bit older than you) and I had to move (far) outside of the Bay Area to make that a reality.

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Yeah definitely see how there is way more upside in the East bay. Could maybe see myself there one day. Most people I know that are buying homes there are married and thinking about children. Not my m.o. atm

Your rent is not disappearing. Rent is literally paying for a roof over your head WITHOUT the financial risk of buying and selling in 2 years (or all of the added expenses of homeownership).

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This is not talked about enough - buying a home is not always better than renting!

I don’t want to feel tied to the city by a mortgage, but also want to feel like my rent money is contributing to my net worth instead of decreasing it.

I’m looking forward to that honestly. Would love to find a fixer upper

So, if you have the ability to hunt and find them, rental properties in other cities (specifically duplexes) can be super super lucrative. I just bought in the Nashville market and my mortgage isn’t even due until June and I just rented out the top and bottom unit to travel nurses on a month to month basis until the end up September. Rental income will be $5200 and my mortgage on the place is only $2250. With utilities and 10% to pay a manager (small effort on their part since the place will be rented through the summer) my profit will still be about $3000 a month. My rent in LA is only $1850 so that completely covers my living expenses and I’m saving the surplus to repeat this entire process again next year. You just have to be creative about it. You can buy a home, it just might not be in your primary market, and it might not be your primary home. BUT you are building equity, living for free, and overtime you will have enough equity saved to buy what you actually want in the Bay (although I cannot fathom why anyone is paying those sky high prices to live there… but that is another discussion for another day lol)

I picked a market where I had spent a good amount of time in (I had family there so I visited alot) but I also could have picked another town where I visited frequently for vacation and knew a bit about.

My sister does a lot of real estate investing so she just plugged into her network and found one. But she also said she uses sites like Fiverr, FB marketplace, etc to source them and she interviews them to make sure they’re legit. When interviewing them make sure you have concrete questions that you want them to address when managing your home.

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I live in a 1 bedroom in Russian Hill for $2500. There are deals to be had, you just aren’t looking hard enough.

Hmm. I want to live in a neighborhood that is more expensive than Russian hill. Really important for my well-being to have lots of natural light and not live on the ground floor for safety reasons, so that tends to make the prices higher. Do agree a 1 bed for 2,500 is possible in SF, but for what I’m looking for, it won’t get me there unfortunately :/

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I feel your pain but would also say you’ve chosen to live in one of the most expensive cities. In doing so, you have to make sacrifices which likely means living with roommates a little longer than you might have envisioned. Maybe try to find a situation where you’re only living with one other person verses multiple? When you get your own place you also have to furnish it and buy a ton of stuff so it’s not just the high rent that hurts you.

2 years is not long enough to make the financial decision to buy a place and people aren’t exacting flocking to SF right now. If you’d consider buying a place in east bay, would you consider renting there? You’ve got options but there will always be trade offs.

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