I started a side gig a few years ago to follow my passion and help pay for my kid's college. I'll never have just one job again. It feels too risky. Can you relate?

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I'll only get another one if/when I need to. I'm single in a LCOL area, so I'm doing okay just working my normal job. Huge respect to you for grinding multiple to make sure your kids have a good life, I can't imagine how draining that must be. You sound like a great parent.

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Thanks. I got my MBA while working full time too, so I'm used to the grind. That was also a form of job security insurance.

I worked 2 or 3 jobs at a time. I cut back to one when I became a single father and after I discovered how much I was missing I will probably never work 2 jobs again.

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I had my kids at 36 and 39, so I know from experience!

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I am right there with you. I have had two job for as long as I can remember. I don't know how anyone can survive on one salary in this economy.

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We could survive, but we started late on saving and we like to take trips and not pinch pennies so here we are.

Yep. I keep it quiet, but I have a baking business on the side and it actually generates around $2000 a month in profit. Nobody at work knows about it and I don't particularly want them to. But it's been really helping with my family and covering all the bills.

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That's fantastic! Good for you. Mine brings in about $1k/month, although it could be more if I worked more. But I don't want to burn out.

I worked a second job while my daughter was in college and it made a huge difference. I stopped when she graduated.

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I will probably retire around graduation time so I plan to keep the side gig for extra fun money.

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