I think my husband is having a virtual affair with someone at his remote job. He’s always acting all weird and stays up reading affairs and confessions on Reddit after I go to sleep.

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You gonna bring it up to him?

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At least you're aware of the gaslighting. Don't play the game and don't give him any more energy. I suggest you work your way out of this. It's bad enough that he's doing it but the gaslighting adds another layer of not okay. Basically, look at it this way. You know what the situation is (despite the words out of his mouth). Act accordingly.

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Metaverse affairs 😂

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Want to get back at your husband?

DM me and let's start a virtual affair of our own.

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I also believes he flirts with the callers who call in about their kids accounts. All the callers are females. Well 99% of them. This isn’t the first time I’ve had this virtual problem with him. He’s constantly doin something online or in chats or some website.

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That's basically what we do here. Read about affairs and confessions way too late

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How do you know what he’s doing online?

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