I’m about to start a new job that will require a lot more travel, and likely more hours and more stress. For the management consultants here, how have you navigated recovery while on the road for client work?

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I have leaned into the readings, YouTube, and occasional Zoom meetings. For whatever reason, not wanting to have to restart the sobriety calendar and tell everyone that I had to restart has been enough so far. I also drink club soda and bow out early for gatherings that have the potential to go late. I thought client dinners would be a problem since bottles of wine tend to be ordered, but no one has said a thing when I decline. My mind, once again, made it a bigger deal than it was to anyone else.

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Traveling is not an excuse to back off of what I do to maintain my sobriety, if anything, I need to do more work.

AA is everywhere, my cell phone works everywhere , and though I personally feel that Zoom meetings are not full AA, they are better than skipping altogether when in-person truly isn't possible.

A lot of my drunk-alog takes place during work trips, from needing to be drunk to combat anxiety in the airport amd before take-off to closing down the bar after the event itself. I have no excuse to put thst same energy towards findong a meeting and calling my sponsor.

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Same things I do at home. I find local meetings, I call my sponsor and other guys in the program every day, I meet with my sponsees (virtually sometimes), etc. I once did a virtual service position hosting an online meeting. I have to be more flexible about when these things happen, but primary purpose is to stay sober. Keeping my job will follow if I make the time for my program.

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This post is an alert message for anyone joining the Johnson & Johnson EMEA account for SAP & had Rakesh Sharma for their Manager round.

He is nothing less than a con man & will promise you a lot to make you join the account. After that he will put you in testing projects. If you ask for a release, he will either not release you or release with a very bad rating and influence other project managers to not take you into their projects.

You will be left with no choice other than leaving TCS.

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Hello friend,

Any one abscond the notice period in EY.


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Any one can help me for same what get happened if I do same.

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