I’m writing this from work, it’s midnight. I’ve been on a pitch for the last 2 weeks. My child is being raised by daycare, nannies and my mom. How can I still do creative work and be a good mom?

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I am not a creative. But it is really hard to work in advertising and be a parent. I just wanted to say you are not alone. I ended up freelancing so I could have more control over my schedule and not work as much. But because I am not working as much my family has had to adjust to having less income. Additionally, I am not sure when I will work. (But realistically there is never real job security in advertising.)

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Smaller markets make a big difference. You can do great work and still have a life. 🙌🏻kc🙌🏻

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I’m sitting on a plane right now feeling the same way. Don’t have any advice, just wanted you to know you’re not alone.

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You’re a good mom already because you’re providing for your child. Also, I know this is considered a death move on Fishbowl, but have you considered pharma? It’s generally more family friendly because there’s not as much of a “this is my life’s passion” vibe. People want a steady paycheck and to go home to their families at night. I know there can be late nights in pharma too, but I’ve worked at three agencies and have always gone home around 6pm 90% of the time.

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RPA is generally flexible.

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Also, I’m in LA, so any suggestions of flexible agencies or work situations are welcome 🙏🏼

Sending hugs. I can relate. I ultimately went in house and that helped a little.

Therapy helps. I’ve slowly been learning and applying boundary setting.

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