Is anyone else having a hard time getting to a first date in the apps? Like I get matches and then people don’t bother to reply or carry a convo so it’s a false start.

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Tell me about it. So many times I get matched and the other person just doesn't know how to hold a conversation. Like ask me something. Tell me something about yourself. It's not that hard.

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Ok this helps to hear so I know it’s not just me

All the time. If you don't match my effort and energy, I take it as a lack of interest and quickly move on.

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Wow. I thought it was just me. There has to be a new way. My best friend is helping me figure out ways to meet people out and about. Same thing, I've been discussing with my therapist.

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I’ve been doing the same lol

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Same…I’ve gotten more dates off Grinder than tinder or hinge. What apps are you guys using?

I’ve had luck just following random guys i think are hot on instagram and just start messaging them and feigning interest in their posts. Meeting one of them this week.

No - private AF.

If you really want a date, go to a bar. People need to get out more.

NY 36M. Hit me up!

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