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Just be warned people in Portland are not like people from other parts of the US.
Passive-aggressive, xenophobic (they don't like new people/folks from somewhere else), and a lot are racist while they tell themselves they're progressive.
I've been here for over a decade and have made friends, but it wasn't easy. People are polite, but take a long time to genuinely warm up/let you into their circle. Once they do, it's a real relationship (not lip service), but you have to be patient. I suggest groups like Partners in Diversity or a place of worship (if that's your thing) or groups focused around hobbies, and don't forget your coworkers. Good luck!
I'd offer to get a coffee, but I'm up to my eyeballs in parent caregiving so I don't have much time, but you can drop me a DM if you ever want to chat.
Felt it was easier in a lot of other cities tbh.
Honestly, for straight people it can be a little more difficult, unless you're into rec sports. There are some groups that do meet ups for running/walking/hiking - you can find these through Facebook.
Another option that's newer, that a colleague of mine has tried recently, is something called Time left. It sets you up with a group of people for dinner on Wednesday evenings.
I could use a new friend. Coffee?
Same!!! I'm out of town at the moment, but Ill be back in a month and would love to grab coffee
It can be hard, depending on your age and interests. It's sometimes easier if you can find others who are in transition (just moved here, recent change in lifestyle, etc.) If you have a hobby or interest that you engage in regularly, you might find community there. Then it's just a matter of setting some more intentional parameters by extending a personal invitation.
Also, be clear about whether you are willing to travel to meet up. I'll never go to an event or get together on the Westside or Lake O or Vancouver. If you're not inner Eastside, close in NoPo, or downtown you'll need to come to me.
Have you been to George Rogers park? It’s absolutely beautiful.