Just curious - how much do other people spend on mortgage as a % of their HHI? My wife and I are buying our first home, with mortgage plus insurance/ taxes adding up to about 7.5k. We make roughly 20k take home a month. I’m worried that’s too much as we dipped into our emergency funds and sold some stocks for the down payment (we see ourselves living here long term though). Would love to hear how others are doing!

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It depends but Ideally it should be 1/3 of your HHI, which yours seems like.
Before you commit, just ensure does the remaining money (take home paycheck, not HHI) suffice to replenish your emergency fund, your expenses/travel and some investments.

For reference, me and my wife make close to $35k/month for HHI. Our take home becomes close to half of that after our 401k, taxes and emergency fund. Our monthly mortgage is like $12k and our expenses are around $3k so we are able to manage it within our take home pay and still sometimes have $1-2k leftover. We bought the home because we loved it and want to raise our family here.

So also consider the emotional aspect. Logic is fine but sometimes go with your gut feeling.

Cheers and good luck!

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Our PITI Is $8800 (put about 25% down), take home $22.5k, childcare $1800, discretionary expenses $4k. So pretty similar to you. We are doing fine, but we need to be careful budgeters and spenders. We pretty much bought at the top of our budget though. If you are DINK then you’re definitely fine.

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DINK for now but hoping to start a family in the next year or two. Thanks for sharing! Happy to hear it’s doable with careful budgeting.

Is the take home after maxing 401k/retirement? Or just up to employer max?

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After maxing employer max

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It depends on your other expenses and if you have child care costs. With no childcare costs that doesn't seem too bad since ~13k a month after mortgage is more than sufficient for savings/investing. If you plan on having a nanny or paying for private school then things may get tight. Also if you don't have car payments either then I think you're more than ok with 33% of your take home pay going into a primary residence. You'll have enough money for house issues that inevitably come up and worst case could always do a HELOC for any major home repair if you don't have the cash for it.

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A good rule of thumb for modeling is plan to spend 1% of the purchase price annually on maintenance. If the house is $500k that’s $5k or $416/mo. So think of your monthly expense as more like $7500 + 416 = $7916.

Take home is $420k and spend $1600 on mtg and taxes…. Can’t image spending more. But given rates suck, it is what it is.

Don’t go over 25% of your net income on mortgage (including insurance and taxes) and stick with a fixed rate, even if that means a 30 year.

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