My being underwater has made it so my secretary has had to work really late on filings (like 11:00 pm or even later) something like 4 days in the past 3 weeks. I feel so awful; and she is so professional about it. Any good ideas for a gift to show my gratitude that is appropriate? My instinct is to spend a lot, but I could see that being inappropriate too 🤷‍♂️

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Ask her. Say you’d like to do something nice to show your appreciation but would rather it be meaningful or specific to her instead of it just being a token.

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I’d go with thoughtful gesture like bringing in her favorite Starbucks order or a breakfast pastry or box of chocolates to go along with a gift card and hand-written thank you. Don’t think the amount has to be all that much. I’d also send out a public acknowledgment calling her awesome and cc’ing the partner on the case (like when the filing confirmation goes through I’ll forward it with a “Thank you so much for all your hard work on this, so and so! You really went above and beyond!” and cc the ppl who should know)

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I would ask the paralegals and legal assistants in our bowl😊 you can get great ideas

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Money. We like money 😄

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In addition to the things mentioned above, you should give her stellar reviews and advocate for her to the partners for raises and bonuses.

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$500 cash

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Gift certificate for a massage or facial!

I second this.

Gift card to a great restaurant, spa day, or cash with a personally written note thanking her for having your back.

My boss once gave me a gift card to a day spa, and another time a gift card for me and my spouse to go out to a nice dinner after spells of late nights and favors. I appreciated it very much.

Is this not normal? Most filings are near midnight and I have them all the time…

It is not. I didn't learn this wasn't normal until I left a firm that was a cluster.

$500 cash

Big Christmas gift $$$

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