My boyfriend is always on his phone when I approach him to talk about something enthusiastically like may be an incident at work or the vacation details I have planned for us. It’s not like he doesn’t listen to me, but instead of having an eye contact, he is always scrolling through Twitter or some app on his phone. It hurts me and makes me feel unloved/angry. Is this normal for guys? What should I do? Please help.

How do you all deal with toxic politics from parents? For me it's not just left/right. There's outright racism and conspiracy theories. And what makes it worse is the constant rambling, ....

Any recommendations for books for desi parents ? Politics , economics, world order , self help

First-gen grad students, does your family put pressure on you to succeed? It feels like our relationship is them just bugging me about my work. I’d love some advice, I miss my fam.

26 and being pressured to get married and date by ethnic extend family and family. I’m out off by marriage because all I saw growing up was women talking about sacrifices. It sounds miserable. I also don’t want to have kids for that reason and I’m tired of being bloody asked. Tired of being offered prayers or whatever. It seems like hell

I love watching my 3-year-old's engineering hacks... he wanted to pet the cat so he built a fort out of pillows and waited, now the cat's purring on his lap and they're both asleep

What are the best defense company vacation and healthcare policies?

Advice needed please 🙏🏻 for datings apps: when should one reveal that one has a kid?? I’m 38F with a 5 year old and I get the impression men run miles from me

When did you realize that you may have a problem (physically or mentally)? Haven’t left my house in 72 hours because of being burned out/anxiety and turning down plans with friends.... (cont)

Ladies, did you change your last name after getting married? I’m worried about the impact it will have on my publications.

What is the easiest, fastest and cheapest way to get divorce if we both are ready to get done with it asap
There are No kids from the marriage and any other financials will be easier to settle

How do you survive on a PhD stipend knowing it’ll be years before you can afford luxuries like a vacation or brand-name ice cream?

Is a move to Dubai worth it? Currently in the US (Pakistani background - but my whole family is in the US). Thinking about relocating with my wife and 4 year old just for a change. Looking for warmer weather + more savings + and just a lifestyle change. Thoughts from anyone who’s made a similar move?

Feeling a bit lost lately. I’ve had some major life accomplishments recently and I feel they go unnoticed. I’m super stressed with work. Everyone has been super negative lately. I’ve tried talking to a few close people only to have them railroad me with their problems (not in the trying to relate way). Every time I try to take a vacation from work it gets pushed aside. Im just tired and need a break and people to realize it.

Did everyone take a day or two off to celebrate the holiday? Does anyone feel pressure to work on the holidays? It seems like major meetings get schedules with no thought about the high holidays

My sister wants me to pay for my father's hospitalization and related costs

My parents planned a trip to the US and never told me. My sister helped then plan. In the US, my father fell sick and had to be hospitalized. They did have travel insurance but there were still a lot of out of pocket expenses and other expenses related to rescheduling tickets, etc.

My sister contacted me once she got the bills and told me "as their son" I should be paying for everything.

Find yourself a SO that never gives up like those “ your vehicle extended warranty” calls. Life advice…

Does any other girl feel my struggle of maintaining friendships with guys cuz you don’t want to get hit on? I’m in late twenties, and in college years, most of my good friends were guys that didn’t expect anything else but friendship from me. But now I’m struggling to maintain friendships with guy coworkers because they constantly ask for a coffee or lunch/dinner date. Is it cuz I’m friendly? I can tell they want more from me. How do I navigate this? I still want guy friends. 🥺

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

Last year, for a few months, I dated a friend of mine of eight years. It did not impact our friendship and continued to have a good bond as friends. He has been dating someone for a few months and they were planning to get married early next year. They have been having problems (contd)

Any recommendations for good house cleaners in Chicago? Feel free to DM me or comment below

3 years ago was recruited away from D to a PE portfolio company to run M&A and other strategy work. Things have gone well and company is prepping for exit. Thinking about going back to consulting after exit: what options are out there? I left D as an M and would only consider returning as “senior” SM or higher. Who else is hiring at higher levels in M&A? What does starting comp look like for SM (or equivalent) role?

Hello guys I am new hear I hope to get some consulting gigs for Research around SRHR particularly in the Southern Africa region, I have 3 years experience in Programs implementation around SRH and gender

hi , can anyone please refer me Extrieve Technologies i have got suitable job id

Looking for Deliotte Canada referrals - Consulting

Wish I had gotten a haircut a week or so ago...

In an interview today, I’m talking about using KNN for classification purposes, and the interviewer asks “I thought KNN didn’t have labels?”. What does this mean?

Anyone else feel like giving up on corporate life?

Hello Everyone,

I'm currently a civil design engineer, and trying to switch to real estate as a Program Manager. I have an interview in a week where they tell me I will have to work on ( for about 3-4 hours ) on an operational case study.

The job is located in Paris and the job is in French .

Does anyone here have any case studies in Real estate that they can share ? and if they're from France, that would be even better.

Thank you in advance !

Any advice regarding final round interview at Simon-Kucher and what to expect on the math test? @

Looking into the following apartments since I’m moving to Dallas.

The tenison at white rock
Lakewood on the trail
The Bluffs of Lakewood

Please share your thoughts on these locations. I’m newly

How much time roughly do you dedicate for GMAT on weekdays, alongside ZS work?

PHR or SHRM-CP?

If I want to be an accredited investor and my HHI is under $200k, will studying for and passing the series 65 suffice?

advice on not only forming but keeping a routine? I’ve tried setting a schedule and checking things off but then it tends to feel like a chore and I’ll get annoyed if I don’t get everything done

Blue point exchange anyone?

Hi All, How many years of total experience needed for getting promotion to Software Engineer from Associate Software Engineer. Company -SS&C TECHNOLOGIES SS&C Technologies, Inc. SS&C
Current experience -2 yrs

Hearing a lot about a recession happening at EOY. I am currently at Dell and have only been there for 7 months amd hate it. Had final interviews with Meta and Amazon this week. Would it be smart to move to either of these companies knowing a recession is coming?

I ate one biscuit out of a big packet that belonged to my roommate and he said things like “it’s so tough to get these biscuits” etc. The thing is that I would have never said that to him. I’ve told him that as long as it’s in the kitchen, don’t ask me before eating. He also constantly keeps asking me to switch off the kitchen and bedroom lights. Is my being annoying justified?

For female consultants - anyone experienced with egg freezing? Considering it and looking for practical advice i.e. 1) best locations / clinics globally (quality/cost wise) 2) estimated cost, one off and recurring 3) success in actually conceiving & giving birth 4) dos and donts / regrets 5) any other relevant considerations

For those who are in long term relationships, why aren’t you married? I’d like to move forward and start a family, but my gf isn’t willing to consider that at this point and probably won’t for the next ~10yrs. We’re 23 and 27yo

Got out of a toxic relationship that I KNOW was toxic but my heart is still heavy and I want him back. Did anyone experience this? How did you overcome it?

Anyone ever gone through a separation with their spouse and have 3 small kids (under 6) in the equation? My spouse asked me for one tonight 🥲

How do you know if your friendship has gone beyond friendship and it is something different?

How to handle your emotions in a less sex ( not no sex), and low quality sex marriage?

It's emotionally depressing for me when we don't make out, getting ugly thoughts of breaking up.

Although I also do understand this should not be the ground for destroying the family, but the lack of it creates a vacuum in me.

Is anyone having second thoughts about their current relationship?

Where are single men looking for single ladies these days? Tinder/hinge and other swipe apps seems to be flooded by onlyfan-ers which is fine (you do you boo) but not something i am looking for in a potential partner.

How do I politely hint at a guy I have just started seeing that he is moving to fast? We have only been seeing each other for a couple of weeks and not had any sort of exclusiveness discussions or anything but he is texting and expecting replies multiple times a day (I am currently on vacation away from the city we both live in), planning trips together in several months, letting me know how much he likes and misses me several times a day. I like him but I am starting to feel very overwhelmed.

I need serious advice, please! Am I wasting my time messaging a guy I matched with online that lives on the opposite coast? Background: we message each other at least 1-2 times everyday for the last FIVE months but never over a phone call. He actually doesn't even have my number. We message on IG. He's a full-time student and full time employee so busy guy. But am I wasting my time and emotions with this guy??

I recently watched a video that talked about "voluntary reduction of income", which is where a person intentionally leaves their job and/or takes a lower paying job than what they qualified for in order to decrease chid support payments. I don't understand why anyone would ever do that? Can anyone explain reasoning behind this action?

My bf took a guys trip to Caribbean to celebrate a good friend of 20+ year’s milestone bday. The friend’s bday is the day before mine. Normally bf and I trip for my bday over the holiday weekend. Bf will be back for my actual bday, and we’re taking a domestic trip next weekend. That said, I still feel a little miffed that we’re not spending this weekend together like normal. Are my feelings unreasonable?

I’m breaking up with my GF of 3 years today.. going to be a tough one.

What's the best relationship advice you've heard recently?

Ex who dumped me abruptly before I planned on proposing reached out and wants to meet up 6 months later to try to get back together. I feel mostly anger towards her. Bad idea to accept and meet up

Should I gift a guy if he’s never gifted me before?

Alright how many of you have hit up your ex since quarantine? Mine unfollowed my on everything so I congratulated him on LinkedIn for his promotion