My grandmother told me that I use to be a gentle easygoing person and should quit my job because it ruined my personality. She basically doesn’t like me anymore bc i’m too aggressive. But probably wouldn’t be noticed if I was a male 🙃

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Don’t blame your job for becoming a d*ck. Just do better.

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It’s good they pointed this out Op. time to self reflect and maybe think before you shoot from the hip lol Leo here as well btw 😂

My grandmother told me I’m too American to be a good wife, but she could still teach me to cook so I wouldn’t be completely useless to my future husband. 🙃

(Greatly respect my grandmother, though. She made it to America purely through her own gumption and grit, and thanks to her I’ve had an amazing education and a great career in this country.)

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Wow! Remember those feelings are about her more than you. Maybe it’s easier for her to reminisce about you being younger than face the fact that you’ve grown up and become your own person. But in any case, it’s not your problem (unless you’re actually a jerk 😁).

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Don’t take it to heart, we have to evolve in these cut throat times! Has your personality actually changed though? Honestly, I am semi aggressive at work but very chill in my private life.

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Interesting! I’m an introvert so since I have to be so outgoing at work, I tend to love spending time alone and being more passive in my personal life. Maybe some balance? But either way don’t worry about family they’ll always find some reason to critique haha

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OP, you dont have to listen to your grandparents. I barely listen to my own parents if I disagree

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