My husband was in Afghanistan ~2010. We met while active duty in 2011, both honorably discharged in 2012, married in 2015.

We have struggled every day I have known him with his alcoholism and PTSD from what happened during his deployment. Some days are better than others. He has been sober for two years now, and that helps a lot.

This past spring, he decided to seek treatment at the VA. He has been going through CBP therapy ever since, and it's been a rocky road but overall positive. (Contd)

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Six weeks ago, he initiated a disability claim. When the interviewer reviewed his records with him, he noted that my husband had gone to the VA once before in 2015 seeking treatment for the same symptoms -- we had completely forgotten about trying this once before, tbh.

He received approval for 60% yesterday backdated to this spring, when he started therapy, and naturally there are a lot of feelings this week.

The thing I'm stuck on, and I'm kind of hesitant to even talk about it, is that I don't think it's enough. I'm just the wife, I guess, and it's not my fight to fight, but I think it should have been backdated to at least 2015 and at a higher percentage.

Can anyone provide insight to how these things are determined and any options he may have, if he asks?

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Appreciate the insight, y'all, thank you.

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Disability is backdated to the day you apply for it. 60% is a solid initial rating for mental health alone. 70% is usually the max, unless you're severely jacked up. You can always appeal/file for increase.

If you're a vet, did you file for claims as well? Don't forget to lookout for yourself as well.

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Can totally understand that position. I’m willing to bet there’s still other claims that you can possibly do. Just need to research and see what applies

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Just some thoughts:
- Congrats on him getting a rating, I know the process is hard and can be even more challenging when it come to MH things
- There is no 60% rating for MH, it is 0, 10, 30, 50, 70, or 100 percent.
- That means that he was probably rated at 50% and there is some other disability that is bringing him up to 60%
- At 50% it means the veteran has some impairment in the ability to function socially and at work resulting from a lack of reliability and productivity
- The next level is 70% which means the veteran is unable to function in most social and work areas
- Backpay is typically only to the intent to file date or the date the application was put in unfortunately
To really get an understanding of what else is possible, you will have to look at his decision letter. It will state why the higher level was not met and why the lower one was.

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