My manager tried to spy on me which organization i was joining after BNY . Told manager to get the f*** off haha 🤣😆 felt very good 👍😊

How do you say no to your manager if you have been asked to work in a shift and the work that you have to do has no relevance to your actual job.

Lots of clients are dressing down. I feel like well tailored, high quality blazer+no tie+dark jeans+black shoes are a great, simple combo. Breaks fashion rules, though. Thoughts?

My manager continues to ask me to help other teams and do work on other billable projects. I’m sick of it .. and I’m going to explicitly say that no I can’t do it because my hours are taken by the existing project we are doing. Is this appropriate?

I’m a new associate working for a well-known defense attorney in my state. On one hand, I’m thankful for the opportunity to learn from one of the best, but he also excoriates and belittles me for my mistakes. Any advice on how much it tolerable? I am here to learn and advance my career but he can be pretty nasty. (My mistakes are no worse than you’d expect a 1st year associate to make, in case you’re all wondering if I’m a major screw-up who deserves it) I leave work feeling a foot tall.

Ladies, what's a good pointed shoe to wear in the pacific northwest climate going to the office?

I’m not from an English speaking country but I am watching a tv show and businessmen walk into a room and instead of greeting eachother, everyone says each person’s first name in lieu of hi, however in my experience working in the states, I haven’t seen anyone do this, it’s always hi or good afternoon or some other greeting first THEN they say their first name. is it also appropriate to omit the greeting?

Third yet at a firm in a major market (not NYC). Pay is slightly below market and bonuses are not market either. What is the going rate for a holiday gift for a secretary that I was assigned to 2 months ago but has done some work for me through the year and also a paralegal that I have worked with all year?

Question for the Big Fishes! (E-Suite, senior leaders, Directors etc), how do you like to be approached or engaged with at social work functions?

What’s the best way to make a positive impression without defaulting to work related discussions or being bored with traditional small-talk?

I get it, women in engineering are a bit of a rarity. But it feels like my coworkers don't talk around me and it's really awkward. Sometimes I wish I could just blend in

What do you do for winter shoes and commuting?

I walk a total ~20 mins in between train/bus stations and then getting from the stop in the loop to the office.

What do I do come wintertime for boots? Do you wear them while you're in the office? Or do you bring dress shoes with you to change in to? I wear a suit to work, so what boots would be good for winter but also look decent with a suit? This is my first winter in Chicago (a socal transplant)

How do you handle it when a direct report reacts negatively during a performance review?

Your opinion of “reply all” emails?

1) genuine interest
2) signaling
3) overt office politics
4) other explain

Annoying, especially when they aren’t relevant to everyone in the cc line. Discuss

Monday morning always stress me out. Particularly with a very straightforward sr manager who points out something you missed in front of the whole team and client. 😫

My Best friend is getting engaged coming Tuesday and my leave is not getting approved. My manager is on leave herself (Mngr got married two days ago, to her boss) and she is not approving my leave, saying you should go when I am not there... I absolutely want to attend the engagement function!
All my work for the upcoming week is already ready- I completed everything beforehand for this. Please suggest how I can manage the situation and attentd my friend's engagement :( Mngr bullies me I feel.

What’s the dress code for virtual court conferences? For those that have attended one already, what did you wear? I’m planning on treating it like a regular conference. Thought?

Partners- can you please help me understand the following scenario.

This partner always say hi to me and smiles at me. Recently, he avoids me and doesn’t say hi to me. His favorite manager, doesn’t

Thoughts on inviting co-workers to your wedding? I joined a new team a year ago during the pandemic and haven’t met them in person - I’ve developed some cordial working relationships but not sure if I’d consider them wedding close! Any thoughts or advice?

What’s the overall feeling about presentation attire? Suit and tie?

I’m starting to work in the IB division in NYC soon. Was wondering what’s the dress code in the office. Would Business casual be fine?

Gave my notice, HR pushed my term date up, then goes back on what they said because they realized they needed bodies to help out. 🙄 like why didn’t you double check with the scheduler and teams earlier. literally stated it in my email too. I can’t wait to leave 🥳

How are the salary hikes at nagarro? I heard the hikes has decreased! If yes what can I expect after a year? I am 4 year experienced

What’s the best way to turn down a 2nd interview? During the 1st interview, I learned that the compensation for the role is not within the range that I am looking for and requires 400 more billable hours a year than what I bill now. I’d basically be laterally for my current salary just to bill 400 more hours. I also wasn’t aware that the local office was strictly ID. Firm website advertises lots of practice areas. Any advice? TIA!

What would be my in hand salary?


Is this most silly question (and mostly asked) when there are really good in hand salary calculator available online? Example: Ambitionbox

Should i join s&p now, I heard some bad news of its merger..

Anyone from data technology/consulting team here?

Out of work and just been rejected for what would have been a great role... pointers for keeping skills in check whilst out of work... feel the longer I’m out the less employable I’m becoming

I am going to India for a month. May have to change my return date. Any suggestion on what insurance/other option to reduce the ticket update cost impact.

Does anyone have advice for someone looking to go into marketing? I want to do content writing/brand design but I don’t have experience besides 1 internship. My experience is in sales/acct management

Anyone ever work with Advantage? Agency recently onboarded the tool and hoping to see how other agencies have worked with this as we’re running into some issues.

Any book recommendations for a new public defender?

My ECD keeps changing our work before it goes to client and it's cost us making good work. Our books are suffering because he can't get his hands off the tools. Our books are only full of spec now.

One of the things that my ADD coach helped me with was realizing that I wasn’t prioritizing activities that help me feel recharged. Between work and home responsibilities, I was just burnt out and overwhelmed.

So now when I start to get burned out I focus on reducing auditory overwhelm, getting outside, listen to music, get comfortable, read a fun book, etc.

As we’re heading into the weekend, what are some things you do to recharge and give yourself a break?

What is avg salary for 5yoe java fullstack dev in UAE

Looking for a scrum master role any referral or leads would be appreciated! Thanks

Sorry Argentina....Will we see a last hurrah from the Soccer God Messi

Hello All,

I am having over 9 years of experience as oracle application database administrator and currently pursuing my masters at university of Windsor Canada.

I am looking for co-op and full term opportunities. Please let me know if you have any recommendations.

Thanks,
Shruthi

How much time bny takes to provide laptop post date of joining? As onboarding is virtual.

How many days does BNY Mellon takes to release offer letter post the interview procedure, I was confirmed by HR that I will get a mail with link to upload docs and then offer will be released but still waiting for their mail.

Hi Folks,
Can you help me out with the work culture, Work life balance and job security in BNYMT(BKT) / Inautix for longer tenure, i am holding around 6.5yr of exp for lead data engineer position. BNY Mellon Corporation #banking

Which is better to join @capgemini or @BNY?

I just received an offer from BNY Mellon, and as per their terms and conditions mentions BNY can solely decide to reject or not accept our resignation letter, even though the notice says 60 days? Is it even legally allowed?

Can we never leave them after handing over the resignation letter until they agree as well?

Can anyone refer me for Payment BA opening within BNYM

Hi everyone

Can someone please help me understand hierarchy at BNY Perishing. Where does a Grade J stands?

About to join BNY Mellon this month pune location as a Technical Lead. I am eligible for bonus in Jan 2023 or not ?

Any insights on bonus & hike ? By considering recession/inflation.

Which is better BNY or ZS Associate?

How abut the job security and appraisal in BNY chennai . When is the appraisal cycle ??? And what is the maximum % they provide .

What is the hike for 1st bucket for BNY Mellon India?

What is caregiver leave in bny ? How to opt for caregiver leave? Any medical proof required for the same?

I'm looking to apply for a Principal , Prod Svs. App Support position in Chennai.

Does anyone what the typical salary range is for this designation?

YoE: 13
CCTC: 21.3L

How soon you can change project in bny Mellon technology? Whom to contact for project change?

What's the hike percentage on promotion in BNY Mellon and what's it without promotion for Pune India operations?