My wife just keeps getting fatter. We've talked about it, she's acknowledged it but just keeps eating bad food. I'm so done. Health is something I'm not willing to sacrifice.

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OP you sound like a compassionate, loving and supportive mate. She is very lucky to have your unconditional love. So many others, in this circumstance, would adopt a selfish, judgemental and uncompassionate stance.

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Congratulations! You earned FB's biggest douche post of the day! Please treat yourself by putting Icy-hot on your balls.

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Unless she's getting into the morbid obesity category the health implications of being fat are minimal so you could start settling down a bit OP. The next thing I'd do is figure out why she doesn't care about her changing weight and coach appropriately. Maybe she's depressed?

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Ok yeah this is messed up you're right. Change of heart

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Some of you heard, some of you judged. The main issue was that she chooses to eat terrible food, not that I don't support her emotionally,physically, mentally. Her poor nutrition habits are killing her and us. If you can't give up bad food for us why do I have to sacrifice everything for you?

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Please tell me there's an underlying issue going on here or else this is just fucked

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Reminds me of someone I used to know that was on a Pritikin diet and could not handle the fact that his wife had the occasional cheeseburger.

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She's not motivated by you?

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@P4^

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Damn p3, so true. Sad

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Are you still attracted to her at all?

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It's what a lot of women do after they get married. 😂

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Sorry I fucking object to the "it's what a lot of women do when they get married. " this is not exclusively a woman thing.

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Poor eating habits are generally linked to emotional stress within. Sometimes it could also be linked to undetected health conditions like thyroid etc. which in turn also shoots up because of stress. These are just two cases here and there could be many. But I can't fathom the fact that she's actually stressed in spite of having the most supportive, non judge at all and encouraging partner in you. 🤔

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What is "fat"?

How fat is fat?

If I can maintain a solid 6 pack while traveling, she can manage not getting fat

No more assumption then anyone else on this thread lol

@P4 omg I don't think I've ever impacted someone having a change of heart on emotionally charged topics on FB! Sadly this sorta made my night! Haha

I pray she sees this post to realise what an ahole you are so say vile things about her

Yep, unless she is morbidly obese, scientifically the health argument does not hold water here OP sorry!

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