Realizing that at the end of the day, performance is down to who likes you as a person.

I’ve been working for 3 years and noticed that if you like someone as a person, everything annoying or wrong they do, you brush to the side as a quirk. But if you don’t like them, it’s amplified as incompetence and flaws.

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Perceived performance, but not actual performance. But importantly, I think the biases you described are very real, but only go so far.

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100% this.
I suck at my job, but I’m very good at relationship building. Meanwhile, my colleague executes flawless on all his tasks, but is not liked and was on a PIP a few months ago.

#FailingUp

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Just do your job and don’t be annoying it’s very easy lol

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