Since having my first child, I’ve questioned whether I still want a leadership role.

The added responsibility and longer hours don’t feel worth it right now. My partner stays home full-time, and we’ve even discussed switching roles so they can return to work.

But part of me feels guilty, like I’m stepping away from something I should want.

Is anyone else in the same boat? Does ambition change after becoming a parent?

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Your child will grow up in no time. Enjoy those years. Success is what makes you happy. Only you can define that. I planned to be a stay at home parent. It didn’t work out. I was able to balance both with working at home and having supportive family to help. It isn’t a one size fits all. Don’t feel guilty for choosing what is best for you and your family. Best wishes!

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That's how I feel all the time, missing the little moments. No idea how to be ambitious any more

Welcome to Parenthood! It definitely changes your perspective and outlook in life.

Indeed, it does; the way you look at the whole world changes

Are you a mother? Just curious? What is the career of your spouse? What is your role?

We are both working parents, and we don't divide our roles or anything of the kind, but make ourselves available when needed

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