SO always asks me to help with his slides knowing I m good at it... at first it was fine but it’s getting abit old... anyone has the same problem?

Anyone have recommendations for solid couples massages? Want to treat my SO to a pamper day from a legit place that knows what they’re doing since she has back problems

How to overcome a breakup. I'm heartbroken 😭

How personal is too personal for a SOP. I want to talk about how my aunts postpartum depression and consequent suicide shaped my career aspirations. Is that too personal/ would that be inappropriate to share?

Big Law Dads: How much time do you usually take off when your wife has a baby? And do you actually get to take off, or do you just end up working from home half the time? My wife is due Mid-December, and I’m staffed on 4 M&A deals trying to close by year end, so it’s not looking promising.

Best divorce lawyer in NYC?

Does anyone have any tips to maximize miles when getting married? We currently only have one card that is the same. Does it make sense to add her to all of my other cards as an authorized user? Any tips appreciated

Welcome to the Single (Never Married) Teachers bowl. I'm sure the struggle is real out here and sometimes it's good just to have someone who's in a similar situation to talk to about our experiences.

What is the appropriate way to sympathize with relatives when their loved ones pass away. I never know what to say on the phone other than ask is everyone ok and I am sorry to hear their loss. Cont...

Do you think you and your significant other should have similar personalities? My significant other and I are doing long distance and I feel like when I FaceTime with him, I emote more and show interest by asking more questions but from his end, he doesn’t always have a reaction or just nods, and it makes me feel like he’s uninterested. On his end he sees it as he’s comfortable.

Boyfriend and I have been dating for ~1.5 years and we still only spend weekends together. I want to move in together at the 2 year mark but bf thinks it’s too soon... just feels our relationship is stagnant and not going anywhere. Any thoughts from ppl who’ve gone through similar situations?

I'm a product engineer and it's hard to turn off work mode at the end of the day, I think of how products *should* be packaged when I'm shopping and can't understand why my wife doesn't care 🤷

sigh* last week Saturday my s/o & I broke up after our 3 year relationship. & it really been affecting me negatively — not eating, autopilot mode, self isolation & diving deep into work. Today I decided to go outside, where I picked up some food to go and went to an outdoor movie by myself; where I had the realization I just really enjoy being by myself. Idk, maybe I’m just better off single after so many failed relationships/am I being dramatic? but anyone else has given up on love?

female here...I feel like quarantine is driving me crazy and I’m looking for a distraction. Recently married but I don’t feel that sense of completion...I’ll admit I’ve always been one to stray but now I’m looking for an outside comfort more than ever. But even more so on top of that I think I’m struggling with feelings of being bisexual and never properly exploring it

Any consulting moms in the area? Desperately in need of in town friends.

I have a non-existent relationship with my dad & mom. It’s so hard trying to maneuver life without support 😢

If at all, how do you guys manage romantic relationships in IB? It’s easier if your s/o is in the industry bc they have an innate understanding someone outside wouldn’t but I don’t think that means you have to find someone in the industry. Curious to hear some thoughts.

Single 🐠 from where do you get your emotional support? There is a constant void I feel and not family and friends support isn’t working out / not an option.

For the single 🏳️‍🌈 fishes: how’ve you managed to stay sane/healthy/happyish throughout this whole thing? The monotony and loneliness is hitting me especially hard during the holidays.

My kids were really upset with me when I told them that my job as an engineer did not mean that I drove trains for a living

My company is trying to get us all to vaccinate, even though I work remotely. Is this unconstitutional?

Hey there! Any one who is with Deloitte working on H1B and do not have already approved I 140 from previous employer and PERM process to start this or next year. Would you like to connect? Please DM me.

Hello. Just curious on what's the salary ceiling for a manager position at Deloitte? Received a verbal offer and waiting on written offer. I was told by a recruiter that M at Deloitte doesn't make more than 180. Just curious if that's actually true and if anyone had experience negotiating higher salary than 180.

anyone ready for AJ Brown to finally show out?

Looking for someone to take over my lease on the UES in Dec. 1bd, renovated kitchen, well maintained and quiet with super on site. The best part: only $2175. 1.5 blocks from the Q. DM for pics.

For those who have most of their money invested, when a building wants to see your bank statements for a new lease, can you show them that your money is elsewhere?

Does anyone go to a decent, inexpensive gym in jersey city? Just looking for a spot to lift at

Any recommendations for worthwhile smaller local charities? My firm is allowing me to donate a pretty sizeable grant ($5k) and would like to put it towards a NYC charity that helps communities in need, especially those where that amount will make a big impact.

Spending NYE in NYC, recommendations for a good restaurant to ring the year in? Preferably something around $150 a person, but willing to dish out more if it’s truly worth it.

Any boulder (rock climbing) gyms you can recommend?

Anyone looking for help with projects on a part-time/contract basis in any of the following or related areas? Leadership & Executive Coaching, Culture & Employee Engagement, Talent Management, Account Management & Customer Success.

Thoughts on new M3? 😍😍

Putting in my two weeks with no job lined up to spend some time with my family and volunteering. Anyone have experience with a gap in employment? Will this ruin my chances of getting a “good” job by January? Have I gone completely insane?

Hi Fishes,

I have joined coforge on November 2nd and I got offer from ITC today...Can I switch to ITC by obscanding will there be any issues...Please guys please give your suggestions

My status is changed from Evaluation in progress to Evaluated in TCS I begin does someone now after how much time TCS will generated once the status is changed.

Hi Fishes, I will be joining TCS Microsoft BU this month as a Test Automation Engineer with 7+ YOE. I had final discussion with HR and offer is expected this week. Any idea which Domain's projects I will be getting in this BU. Also, please share tips to get onsite opportunity.

Anyone used the blu* pil recreationally?

PSA, you can transfer your car loan to an interest free credit card. Got 18 months interest free with BOA and a 20k credit limit. Transferred my car loan and I am no longer paying interest

Should I prepare myself for business analytics or start from scratch for Mern developer. I have better grasp in Python, SQL

Did anyone recently join brillio?
Had few queries 🤔..let me know if you have
Peace✌️

Can I extend my DOJ in Infosys, I’ve already extended my DOJ earlier, whether again they will be able to extend further?

Hi fishes,
I need 11💙 in order to send messages to the users. Please help.

How is AppliedAI Course for Machine learning ? I am fresher with 1 year of intern experience, and planning to switch to Data science domain. Should I go with this course or any other course would be better option?

Hi there, I have joined Amdocs in the first week of May. I am working in afternoon shift and entitled to get the shift allowance. But 2 months salary credited but did not receive any of the shift allowance amount. Can anyone please tell me when Amdocs will credit the shift allowance?? Thanks
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Hi guys, any consulting companies like Bain, BCG, Kearney, McK, EY-P hiring laterals in India for consulting positions? YoE 3

Hi All,
If you have recently joined a new organization in past 3-4 months or more, please share your joining experience, what about WLB in new organization and challenges you faced. And are you happy with the switch.

And please put organization name too.

1.Is a PMO role better or a consultant one?
2. Is it true that consultants have more chances of getting laid off in times of crisis?
2. Can a consultant job lead to a PMO role?

Please please please help.... I have an offer to become a Consultant and I am confused af!!!

How much time will it takr to prepare myself for cloud computing and security as a project manager?

I have basic knowledge of networking and cloud

Hi fishes,
Any one here working with ondc project ?

Hello,

Can anyone give review about Ivanti in terms of learning and work life and culture?

Hello Folks,

Is anyone interested in working as a data engineer for Mumbai location?
Experience as a data engineer in required for at least 2 years

I have a total experience of 5 years. I am currently working in .net domain and I am holding 2 offers currently.
One from Infosys: 9LPA and another from Mphasis: 11LPA.
Can anyone let me know which is better for my career growth and job security??

Hi Fishes,

I'm having 8 YOE in Java technology, got below offers from Infosys, IBM, TCS, Capgemini, Sopra Banking Software.

Infosys - 14.68 lpa
TCS - 15.5 lpa (10 % variable)
IBM - 16 lpa (fixed)
Capgemini - 21 lpa (10 % variable)
Sopra Banking Software - 20 lpa (fixed)

Trying to negotiate with IBM.

Please give your suggestions, which company should I join, in terms of job stability, career growth, work life balance.