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The head of my practice said he wants to use his father’s vaccine card (same name) to go to bars and restaurants. It is a crime. I wish he didn’t tell me. Who do I report it to? The firm? The ethics committee? The police? I feel like I’ll lose my job if I report him, but not reporting it feels wrong.

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Well, all you know is he *said* he wants to do a thing. He may or may not end up doing it. It doesn’t sound like you have any proof of him actually doing it, all there really is, is him saying a somewhat scandalous thing. I have no sympathy for people using fake vaxx card but this scenario just doesn’t seem reportable to me. All he would need to say is he was joking. Like, if i said “ugh i could kill the opposing counsel, they’re annoying” - I don’t think I should be reported for attempted murder

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Lol yeah, I visited the premises of a law school once or twice

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This is not Minority Report. You can be the fun police if you want, but you really shouldn’t…

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The fun police?! I agree he shouldn’t report unless he knows it’s happening. But the suggestion is not just for fun. It’s for a crime-an unethical crime that for sure goes to our professional obligations

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Snitches get stitches

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This would be a career-limiting move, on your part.

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Was this on the phone or is he in the office unvaxxed?

Submit an anonymous report to the firm if you can. I’d make sure he’s told multiple people before doing that.

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Is your professional judgment really this bad? Let it go. You are not responsible for policing what the head of your practice does with his free time.

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