Today was my father-in-law's funeral. Which is hard enough on my husband and me trying to figure out the right way to support. But after the service, my MIL asked me if "people were nice to me at church since...ya know." And I said yes. And she said "good. I'm glad to hear that. we all have our sins that we continue to keep doing without repentance, so yours is no different."

I have never bit my tongue that hard in my LIFE.

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😬😬😬 good for you, you did the right thing even though she didn’t

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I'm so sorry OP. Sending positive vibes to you and your husband.

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I would have pushed her in the hole. I’m so sorry.

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I hope she just wasn't thinking since her husband just died. I hope the grief gets easier.

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I mean her husband just died, you know if she meant it maliciously better than I do but I'm for giving her some leeway

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