What does your (romantic) partner do? Is there a big income disparity between the two of you?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at
Highlighted IconHIGHLIGHTED

Mine is a teacher. There’s a gap, I can only imagine it will widen as our careers progress. But I’m not with her for her cash; shes kind, empathetic and makes a mean Spotify playlist.

likeuplifting

A decently famous CCO is with a teacher. Makes sense!

like

My wife is a national security lawyer. I'm basically a trophy husband.

likefunnyupliftingsmart
Recent IconRecent

My partner and I met in ad school so we’re both in the industry.

He’s an in-house community manager for a big ol’ brand and makes 25k more than I do. He probably always will until I finally give in and go client-side.

Even as the partner who makes more money, he’s suggested that we split our finances based on our income (so about 40/60) when we move in together.

like

Boyfriend is in Investment Banking, making 3x as much as me, at least.

like

My boyfriend is a lawyer and makes just a little more than I do. Although he comes from a more financially stable background so the disparity is there in that he has more assets readily available, e. g. a car, his own house, etc.

like

My wife makes zero money and I make all the money. She’s a full time mom of 2 kids. It’s pretty much invaluable when she takes care of everything else. She uses the college degree in volunteer work when there is time for that.

uplifting

My BF works in Analytics and I work very lucratively in creative freelance and I’m pulling in like 4x what he does. I pay for 70% of our rent, food and bills. We contribute equally to our household though and him probably even more with the cleaning and stuff when I’m working on a particularly crazy project. His job is very 9-5 sometimes less. Me taking on a lion share of the bills and financial planning doesn’t bother me though because I like the lifestyle I can afford and Its only made better having a life partner to enjoy it with me. Plus he’s paying off student loans and I’m not. I’m making enough to save for both our futures and we’re planning on having a family in the next few years and he wants to be a stay at home dad. My life goals have always been super career oriented, his have been very family oriented. At the end of the day I think we both will win.

like

My husband is a doctor (but in residency) so he makes 1/4 of what I make. In 5 years he’ll make 5x what I make. I look forward to retiring from advertising at age 40 (when I’d be pushed out for ageism anyway)

like

29/ Female making $175K. SO is five years older and making $85K. He took a career shift, so had to start back at entry a couple years ago. So I don’t resent him, we split everything equally but sometimes I splurge on us for travel and outings.

like

He’s a programmer and I make less than 2k more than him

Guess that’s why I’m in data analysis and not copywriting 😬

funnylike

Client side. Strat. I make 40% more - been doing this longer. So yeah I deserve it.

he’s an engineer, before tax his income is almost double mine, he also has a side business which he’s looking to move into full time maybe in a couple of years. but he had been unemployed since the start of the year due to health issues so we’re playing catch up as i was pretty much paying for everything while he was sick

Props to you

like

He works in publishing and I make about twice as much as him. Sometimes it’s frustrating but I’ve gotten zen about it by now.

Boyfriend I live with just graduated- struggling to break into his field. So he does small freelance and works part time at a cafe. Pretty big difference but I have student loans so he doesn’t, so those definitely level the playing field

He's in compliance and I make about £1.5K more than him monthly after tax (UK based). We live together so we split rent & bills according to our salary so it's fair and I pay for groceries.

LOL my partner is a meteorologist (not on TV).

My partner works in finance. He makes 4 times more than I do

My SO works in finance but I make more than they. Wish they made 3x as much as me. I would have retired by now.

My husband is an artist. One who generally doesn’t market his own stuff. So it would be fair to say I make about 98% more than he does. Yes, I’m resentful but I’ve also come to terms with it.

My husband is a civil engineer and I make ~$18k more than him

My spouse is a reporter. I make more, but we're both okay with that. We both love our jobs and kick ass at them.

My boyfriend works in tech sales. We are 23F and 25M. I just got a new job offer making 75k 😳 and he just started a new job that’s heavily commission based so his base salary is 45k, but once the bonus checks start coming he will probably make around the same as me.

Thank you M1! My job that I will be leaving soon is for 55k in pharma and my new gig is non-pharma. I never dreamed I would be able to have this big of a jump especially since I’m getting out of pharma. It’s definitely a blessing.

like

Related Posts

What's the maximum fixed salary that Verizon (India) can offer for "Sr Engr Cslt-App Dev" role, kindly suggest as HR is saying it will be difficult to get approval for 26LPA fixed ?

like
like

An old uncle sit next to me in office and always pass gas.
How to deal?

funny

My firm was recently acquired and compensation is unchanged. For context, I’m at the engagement manager level with the organization that was acquired, and with the NewCo, the coverage and responsibility is likely increasing. In this future state I’d effectively be managing more engagements.

Can anyone offer Do’s/Don’ts for approaching and navigating comp renegotiations? (Note: The individual I report up to hasn’t changed)

like

💲For those who DON'T think a six figure salary is possible:

👉Just ask for it. Really, you would be surprised. Might be easier to switch to a new company and ask. I did that 3 years into my career.

And 🛑 wasting your time at a company that under-values you severely. Sometimes switching companies every 2 years or so will allow you to keep raising the bar for yourself.

like

What is the average salary for a senior consultant in Chicago?

like

0% hike 0% bonus is that PIP?

Can we ask for HR to share data n reason
Accenture" class="linkified" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" >etc.Accenture

like

I will go for maternity leave from mid October. Will I get hike on November? I joined on last year November. Also I got very less variable pay in the month of May. It was 8.5% of my 6months salary. Will it be same percentage on 6months salary or 1yr salary this time?

like

Tomorrow is the 1 year anniversary of the passing of my roommates mom. She’s devastated and I know tomorrow will be hard. Any ideas on what I can do to help her through appreciated.

likeuplifting

Hi Team,

Below is my salary structure can you please tell what will my in hand salary monthly ?

Post Photo
like

ZS London compensation and benefits?

like

Hi Everyone, does anyone know the salary bands for SMs in tech consulting at EY London?

like

3.5 years out of school, 2400 billable hours last year in TRS and just got promoted. what kind of year end compensation should I be expecting? Bonus and new salary

like
like

Anyone have any insight into Davita? Specifically the FA role? Whats it like long term, turnover rate, do you make your own hours, salary range etc? Anything would be helpful 😊

like

What’s the band for an SC salary at Deloitte (non MBA) in a HCOL city?

like

Senior Manager, specialty tax practices in NYC: what was your base salary and bonus for the first year? Please also mention your firm.

like

So… 3.5 year relationship came crashing in Jan due to covid depression, work burn out, lockdown etc. We have stayed in contact and recently he has come around to apologizing and considering getting back together. However he also revealed he started seeing someone casually 4 weeks ago and technically is cheating on her by meeting me for coffee and to discuss this. I’m upset that he’s dating others but shouldn’t be right? I mean, I did the same. Still hurts though. And I told him to sort that out

like

I dint feel happy when my bf proposed me for marriage.. i am not able to understand why..he is very nice guy, we have been dating for almost 4 years but honestly, in these 4 years, i never had that butterflies feelings with him never ever. Its just that we are comfortable with each other as a person thats it and we started dating.
Whats wrong with me..i am also not sure if i want marry him..

like

102 K base plus 10% bonus- Toronto- Banking …. PM - 10 YOE..
Is it a good offer? My Target was at least 130 K …

like

More Posts

How much does KPMG KGS offer for
Role: Consultant
Location: Pune
YOE: 9
Profile: BA, Financial Services Solutions

I’m currently giving referrals to Deloitte for anyone with cyber experience who is cleared to work in the intelligence community and willing to work in the Maryland area, experienced in telecommunications, digital, and computer network technical analysis.

likehelpful

Guys I am on talent pool since last 3 months and I am worried now wrt my job security in the company. I see no open position for india geography in open careers page and not sure if I will get a project any sooner. Should I be worried? Anyone have any idea about globant firing employees on bench?

like

My current project winds up on 31st December 2022. If I resign by mid/end of this month(expecting a few offers), would CG persist with the 90 day notice period with me serving majority off those on the bench or would they consider releasing early once the client stops paying? #Capgemini #NoticePeriod

I want to exit to MBB but if that’s not a possibility what are the next best consulting firms? Looking for at least midsize firms (non-boutiques).

like

Hello Everyone,
I need suggestions. I have 2 years of experience in IT as ASE. I am getting calls when I apply for the job opportunity from MNC but being a fresher and not having any experience in the Design field, they do not proceed with the hiring process. I have done Masters in Design (2021 passout)
Any suggestions would help how I can get into a good paying company as a fresher in Design.
Thankyou ✌️

like

Are there any account roles open that aren’t in Pharma? Seems like every AD post I come across is to work on healthcare

like

AE’s looking for a new gig in your stocking? Great, longtime agency in Boulder...

Post Photo
like

Reposting this:
Has anyone ever worked in Bytedance/ Amazon (APAC)? How’s the culture like and are the compensation package competitive?

Going through couple interviews with both companies at the moment, unsure which is the better company to work in.

like

Anyone have experience working in sales for a startup? What are things to consider? Got a recruiter contacting me about an open position very similar to what I do now, at a startup.

Wondering what people think about my situation. I’ve been offered a role with a company. The job description didn’t mention college degree as a requirement. On my CV I have a section listed as “Education” and under it I have “Business Studies” with the university name and the 3 years that I attended the course (2.5 to be exact). It’s a 4 year degree and under this I have my High School equivalent with the years I attended there. The education wasn’t mentioned in the interviews. Continued below.

like

I need help with my interviewing skills

like

I work as a Sales Support Specialist with 3 YOE working at a SaaS company. My dream career is to work at Microsoft. If there are any Microsoft recruiters here, I am open to different roles that pay in excess of 80k Microsoft

like

For shits and giggles

Post Photo
likefunny

What sort of salary does EY consulting pay Senior Mgrs?

Where does EY provide the 14 day initial accommodation when someone relocates to London ?

like

So someone I know asked HR about a boot policy. When he found out that there wasn’t one, but his boss said there was (who gave the guys $ for boots and the claimed it on his expense reimbursements as something else) the boss got mad at him for askingHR (and in trouble for the expense reimbursements) and then 2 days later laid off my friend. There appears to be no notice of bad performance and this person always was the first person on the job site ready to work. Thoughts?

like

Anyone has good resources on how companies set-up their logistic network in Africa? I found an article on Coca Cola but I am rather looking for heavy machinery companies

I may need a freelance senior (ish) AD to partner with for the month of January, in house at a start up. Post your books!

Additional Posts in Advertising

I just noticed that I have a “touch base” scheduled for 9:15, then a “check in” at 11:00 on the same project.

I’ll let you know what the difference is when we circle back.

likefunny

Hey strategists, what’s something you would love an intern to provide you with or something they have done that made your life a little easier? (Cont.)

like

I know longer = better on your resume. But if you’ve been there a year and you know 2 years would be 💩 and any longer will be 🥲🔫, is it better to just gtfo of there asap?

Post Photo
like

You ever have one of those days where nothing is going your way, and then you buy some ice cream to bring home, and then the ice cream falls on the floor?

likefunny

Agency producers- 3D animatic vs animatic vs boardomatic? Which medium do you think tests better in research?

like

Starting my first in house role (at a non profit/NGO) on Monday after spending 9 years in agency. Any tips or words of wisdom?

like

Calling all managers with junior, intern and mid teams: Who is taking (or is being given) the time to train their juniors on the necessary hard and soft skills? If not, what’s stopping you from providing that support?

like

How did your agency handle layoffs? All-agency meeting before they started? After they ended? Both?

Kinda sorta trying to predict if I’m losing my job tomorrow.

like

Any good public strategy resources to learn about Gen-Z?

like

In NYC going from Junior CW to Mid at same agency. Currently making 72k. How much to shoot for?

like

Any good/cool small agencies (50-100) in Chicago?

like

how many of you get high before/during work?

🙋🏻‍♂️

like

Laid off, 10 years exp, tired of acct management. Feel so lost. Don't want to go back to agency side. What should I do? I feel like 💩

like

Art director who comes up with LITERALLY no ideas talked the MOST during meeting. Lollll. Wow.

likefunny

The bond yield curve just inverted. If you don’t have to make any major purchases for the next year, that’s probably a good thing

like

Are there any LA brands/agencies who would consider a candidate that’s not in LA... aka work from home (same time zone though)? 🤔

like

AKQA and Grey merger. What do we think?

like

A little over a year ago, I posted about my boss making constant comments about my salary. Most comments said I must not have been performing well. I want to update that he was fired, not me.

likeupliftingfunny

What health/pharma agencies are in SF?

like

Junior designer here looking to connect with some Philly-area shops— I’m from the area and have recently been trying to learn more about the local agency scene. Would love it if people could drop some names or even some recruiter info. Thanks!!

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal