What’s the best way to handle an attorney who constantly critiques others but doesn’t take feedback themselves? I tried lightening the mood with an innocent meme today, and he decided it was “inappropriate,” but I can’t help but feel the criticism was more personal than professional.

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When I've been in that situation, I find it helps to take a step back and focus on what I can control. If they’re being personal, that’s on them, not you. Keep doing great work and pick your battles wisely.

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Great advice!

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Sounds like a tool. I’m sorry you’re going through this. It sux. Your best bet is to keep it professional. Don’t cross that line and keep it pro always.

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