Would you date someone who is also in consulting?
My partner recently joined a consulting firm and they are constantly asking for help and advice on their work/excel/pptx... I've always loved helping her with her things, but now it feels a bit annoying. I don't want to think about work related things after finishing my work, but I also don't want to feel like an a-hole by not helping...

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My spouse is a teacher. I’ve been grading student assignments since we’ve started dating. My spouse used to help me with PPT. Teachers are good at PPT.

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Lol good plan

My partner is a solution architect. I got so annoyed hearing him explain the same stuff over and over that I convinced him the solution was to create slides to communicate his points. He sucks at PPT, Excel, and Visio - so I just do it all for him. Takes me 2 hours, his boss thinks he spent 2 days, and the whole team says how amazing it is and they totally get it. He looks good at work, I’m impressive to him, and I finally get to hear new ideas on his daily calls. Win, win, win. I do save all the slides and sometimes make him do his own - “use the 3 option slide and remove the line about cost and add a section about team interoperability.” He’s learning! Sometimes I also cash in with “fix this MF code that I can’t get to run.” Teamwork!

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EY3 I love you

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Help your girl bruh

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D3 - Me and my bf are in consulting, I am a level higher than him and would never consider leaving him over this, I actually really like it as I feel empowered and more confident. You need therapy.

My wife (Accenture) teaches me PowerPoint shortcuts all the time. I help her debug Excel errors all the time. We're one team, why wouldn't I help her?

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This is why I married a civil engineer. I don’t have the slightest idea how to model flood plains, she can’t ask me for help.

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Agreed with this sentiment. Currently on my third lawyer.

As I guy, I can tell you this. This is a good test of whether you really want to be with her on not. Sometimes we have to do things we don't like to make sure our partner is not suffering/ is happy

She could be going through anxiety to deliver something. Otherwise she wouldn't ask for your help. It sounds like you'd rather worry about you which should give you the answer to your question

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You don’t want sex?

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Haha I went through this exact thing when my wife started working. A year later, she’s actually better at excel than I am.

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Help her out, she will remember it later. women have long memories…. you will need her help one day. love isn’t just feelings, it’s about action and sacrifice.

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My ex was in consulting, I still ask him questions 😅 the person I’m now seeing works at the same firm as me, you best bet I ask him questions too

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Great networking skills!

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I literally do my husband’s PowerPoints sometimes.

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Is your husband in EYP?

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On the scale of annoying things in a partner this is one I. Willing to put up with

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Lol nahh, just curious since everyone to some degree has a relationship pet peeve

My wife is a cop and I have her create excel models and do formatting of slides for me sometimes. YOLO

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I would not enjoy helping my partner build decks for her job. I avoid that junk like the plague and would not want it in my off time

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You won’t have to worry

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I met my husband at work in the same line of business and it’s been amazing having someone to talk to who relates to my pain points and frustrations. The fact that she’s asking you for help means she relies and trusts in you and knows you’ll support her. It’s important to put the other person before yourself in a relationship, otherwise you’re always going to be let down by them.

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Dude…

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2-3 hrs per day?? That’s too much for anyone. 2-3 hrs per week it’s cool

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I hear you brother. My gf recently joined consulting from industry and it has been an adjustment, however I am happy to help with that because having her in the same line of work has been so incredible to relate to each other, and she has ended up teaching me things too.

I think 2-3 hours is too much in my opinion, and part of consulting is “figure it out” however I think after getting past the initial consulting learning curve things will get better.

Stay strong, and if travel comes back then utilize the flex travel and perks!

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Give it time, if you are new it could take some time

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Tell her to give some of her pay over as a fee.

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