Agency is toxic a f and now I'm under the microscope. Should I quit? I have no passion/energy left and feel drained every day. Have some emergency savings to get me 6+ months and really just want to take time off to recoup

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If you can - figure out how to get the unemployment.

Sorry you’re going through it.

I’m in the same situation as you. I think we should quit for our mental health, but we need to figure out how to get unemployment

Right now there are so many people out of work and applying I’d find it to risky just to quit without having something lined up.

Get them to let you go. Drop the ball on something. If you’re under a microscope that probably means there’s already some trouble brewing

Literally my same situation right now. Every single thing I do is criticized even when I did the right thing.

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