Am I being high maintenance? We purchased a house and did a final walk through. There is trash in the garage including gasoline and hazardous materials, a child’s sand box full of sand I don’t want to physically move, propane heater that didn’t work, broken patio umbrella and other trash in the kitchen and basement. I asked my agent to request seller to remove trash and they have not responded. Sellers are divorcing and have been a nightmare to work with. Do we have to tolerate this nonsense?

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I would give them some grace as they are probably going through the most tumultuous time of their lives right now. Take out the trash it won't kill you. Yes it's a major inconvenience but just view it as you doing your ONE good deed for the year

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That’s not their problem though. They are doing a business transaction. If anything, it’s the realtors problem.

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Nope. You closed its your trash now. You should have stopped by on the way to the closing and done a final walk through.

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I would have done it all let you charge the company

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At this point, it’s not worth stooping to their level. If all you get out of pushing back is the satisfaction of “making them pay,” ask yourself if it’s really worth the time, energy, and stress. I completely understand it’s the principle, but in the grand scheme, spending a couple hundred dollars to remove the trash might be a better investment — saving you time, reducing stress on your relationship, and letting you move on with peace of mind.

Your agent likely offered to pay because they want to close the deal, get you into your home (trash-free, if necessary), and get paid.

Also, check out local “buy nothing” pages on Facebook. You’d be surprised how many people would be grateful for items like the sandbox. It’s amazing how quickly things get picked up when posted — turning your frustration into something positive for someone else.

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If you are actually willing to walk, you have leverage.

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The wife probably can’t lift that trash, especially the sandbox. The husband clearly doesn’t have respect for her or you guys.

Is it worth losing the house over it, and going through the process again?

You said they are divorcing, clearly one of them is trying to sabotage the deal, likely the husband given his previous actions.

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OP what ended up happening?

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My husband wants to let it go but I am so fed up with these people. The ex husband in the seller couple held our offer for 48 hours trying to convince us to drop the financing contingency and finally relented when we refused. Now they won’t even respond to their realtor when we ask them to remove their own literal trash from the property. Can we reduce the sales price and just pay to have it hauled away?

I’ve bought 4 houses. 3 of 4 came with some extra “waste” that was left for me. It’s par for the course.

You could probably pay someone $100 or $200 to make everything go away. That’s cheap in the grand scheme of things

It’s not about my fingernails - I’m more concerned with my time. I’m happy to put sweat equity into a home for a project I see value in. I have other financial priorities and could use $1K to buy furniture, etc.

Agreed tell them to get rid of it or get $200 at the table to call gotjunk.

$200 reduction in sales price would require a lot more paperwork than a credit at closing. Push for a $1k credit and accept a $500 credit if they negotiate.

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The contract probably states that the premises be cleared of debris. If you closed, all leverage is gone. If you haven’t closed yet, state that it’s a condition for closing.

I wish I would have walked on my last house with all the trash they left when they didn’t clean it out. If the price you paid doesn’t reflect all the extra work you have to do just to move into a livable house, make them/their relator/your relator move it out on their dime.

It's not high maintenance. Any good realtor will pay to have it cleaned up, but it's all cosmetic. If you didn't discuss it and agree in writing that certain things, like the sandbox, would be gone prior to closing, it's yours to deal with once you've recorded. But again, if your realtor wants repeat/referral business, they'll bite the bullet and get it done.

Addendum after property inspection: Pre closing walk through, to verify property is in anticipated condition with the following items removed by seller (listed).
No one uses you as a doormat without your permission. Do it and don’t apologize for not- they are the ones pressured to sell.

Once you close on the house all opportunities to make request are over. I suggest you hire someone to come remove all of the items.

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