Another consultant is actively trying to backstab me. Advice for getting ahead of this?

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Turn around and sweep the leg

Or front-run the conversations where this would occur...but be absolutely sure before you go down that path

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Take the knife out and stab them back, make sure to put pressure on your own wounds though

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Ask for Trial by Combat

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You should confront him/her.

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Why do you think this is happening and give examples, let’s start there first before we go into more weird weirdly descriptive metaphorical stabbing descriptions

Honestly they just want blood/an early promotion. Mostly people just go with what this person says but I challenge them because I have seniority on our project and am also well respected. So this person is deliberately making sure I miss client meetings by not forwarding invites. Has taken a seat in our project managers office without asking making it hard to have any alone conversations with them. Has inserted themselves everywhere and redoes any work I do. They’ve told other people that they can’t wait to be my manager.

Its not hard to pick up on backstabbing behaviour these days, so sit back and watch the universe work this one out.

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