Any single women in 30’s-40’s from Chicago or visiting ?

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

Bored on a Sunday night, any female fish feel like chatting

What are your biggest red flags when dating someone new?

I have a date over dim sum in a few days. Any recs or tips for staying compliant? Really want to stay OP.
So far my options are salt and pepper shrimp, steamed ribs, chicken feet, and broccoli.

I drunk texted. It was bad. I wasn’t an asshole, I just said my feelings because I was frustrated about them being avoided. And then I got hardcore ghosted, which is expected but still harsh. Do as I say, not as I do. 💔

Need advice. Very Shy guy and girl, met a while back for a side hustle both like each other a LOT, relationship has progressed in other areas but not in the physical realm, primarily because neither officially asked the other out. Guy is a very rough around edges, asked for a date by saying ‘anytime you need breakfast or lunch, let me know’. I am an independent gal and didn’t like the way it came across. I really want to take this forward but am out of ideas on how to make a date happen.

Any single women like bread?

Hi all, when do y’all think is a good time to have the “what are we”/“are we exclusive” talk? After how many dates?

34M looking to move to an area with other singles in their 30s. Currently in the UES but looking to move out for a change in scene.

Ladies, do you join in on the bro talk, ignore it, call guys out?

What’s the best way to meet other DL gay dudes who are not into the boystown scene?

Single black female. Late 30s, no kids. Is it better to practice in a smaller market that’s close to major cities, lots of professional opportunities, but no real single professional scene? OR be in a bigger pond/major city with more professional and networking opportunities, oversaturated with lawyers of color, more competition for professional opportunities, but bigger dating pool?

I’m 35, and going on a first date. Thinking about bringing her flowers. Yea on No? And what would be the perception?

Met this really cute guy at national training, exchanged phone number, but he's heading back to home office tomorrow. Advice?

Just out of curiosity: how many of you have had sex with co-workers? Is it common in your social circle? Did it happen at work or outside? How do you get to that point without being inopportune?

How do you know if someone likes you in the beginning of dating? I met this guy online who I thought was cute and we went on a few dates. He always texted me right after the date and always initiates another date right after or within a day. He’s been sweet to me (ie when I was packing for a trip, he noticed there’s dirty dishes in the sink and he just started washing them for me) but he never texts in between dates and doesn’t really initiates much physical contact (he reciprocates when I do)

why am i into my coworker who is engaged lol it needs to stop immediately.

Any ladies want to chat with a 30/f?

How did / do you continue to stay motivated to interview

What’s your opinion on Cue Health?

How many pages is your resume/CV?

"Do you really think we can spend all that money?"

These were influencer managers not media

Should I just take the L on draftkings? Been holding since $50 and doesn’t show any signs of slowing the downtrend…

I have received pwc ac documentation email on 7th but still did not got any update...please advise .. Thank you

currently debating if i should work on the hill or accept an IB role. i feel like working on the hill is invaluable experience that could get me into IB but maybe i’m wrong? Which opportunity gives me best resume experience?

Does anyone know the work hours for a virtual financial advisor - national branch, for the Tempe location?

Any staple brands for a first year analyst’s wardrobe?

Looking for a good recruiter in central to puppet Florida...anyone have any one that they can recommend?

What is the best way to study for a PHR?

Hi All!
Anyone from the insurance industry based in Jakarta, Indonesia? Would be happy to connect/network over coffee

Do men in their 30s actually want to settle down and get married? It seems like most are pretty happy with their single lifestyle. Asking as a 26F who is looking for commitment if I should even bother

Welcome to the 30s and 40s singles bowl! Here’s to hoping the posts in this bowl are a bit more mature. Relying on the honor system here, try not to lie about your age.

30M based in nyc. Any F ready for casual dating? Happy to DM if interested.

Any New Yorkers free for a drink tonight?

Any people looking to date in Atlanta ? 40 F

Orl, Fl males where you @. 32F here

Who here has actually made a genuine connection from being in this group? Let’s hear your stories 🍵

Any of Dfw female fishes interested in spending time over drinks/ dinner chat abot life, fun friendly conversation, may we watch a movie together. ? Brown Male 36 .

Rewatching Brokeback Mountain, which came out 15 years ago (hard to believe that). Anyway, it's still an outstanding, devastating film (and love story) that I think if had been released 10 years later would have easily won best picture and best actor for Heath Ledger.

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

36 F Black NYC Divorced, 1 tween. anyone want to get to know one another better?

Any Houston male 35+ looking to meet this weekend for a walk, brunch, afternoon movie, or chat?

No pressure just meeting. You have to be single. 😎😊

DM.

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

Having serious Monday blues! Who wants to talk and help? 35M in Chicago

Anyone in SF/ San Jose? f25

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

Saturday night and I’m Netflixing (for the last 15+ Saturdays). For the love of everything, let next year be normal again!!

Has anyone actually found love at work? My best friend started at a new company 6 months ago and she just took an offer somewhere else because she and her senior manager fell for each other. After 6 months she knew it was worth leaving her job for! I've been working at the same place for three years and I went on one date with a guy who didn't even work with me he just worked in the building. What am I doing wrong.

I know the general answer to this, but I want to know others response.
If by your 30’s you’re mostly established in life, why is it then harder to establish a long lasting relationship with someone ?

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.