Any unhappily married women here? As an unhappily married man, I feel like everything I say and do is used against me.

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This is a singles bowl. If you’re unhappy change your situation but don’t prey on the single until you’re in the headspace to do so.

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This.

Come back after you end it, OP.

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I’m divorced now but spent years unhappily married, worst years of my life and I thank god I finally ended it. Divorce isn’t easy but it’s a lot better than being miserable in your own home. Good Luck🍀

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Perhaps try posting in relationships bowl

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Like being OCD about the kitchen?

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What’s keeping you going in the marriage then? Personally, if I’m unhappy in a relationship more than 20% of the time, it’s time to move on.

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Check out Ester Perel’s Where Should We Begin podcast

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Lol

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Have you been to counseling? I don’t know if you’re religious but I’m a Christian woman and if I was married but suffering in my marriage, I would increase my prayer life and seek a Christian counselor. I would want someone who I could consult regarding the social, emotional and spiritual aspects of my marriage.

Even if you’re not religious, seek a reputable counselor because it helps to have a professional therapist/family psychologist to iron out issues. Perhaps after hearing your story, they can provide you with helpful insights into the dynamics of your relationship with your spouse.

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Well have you tried actually listening to her

Work on urself before inviting more chaos.. evidently ur decision making skills are subpar.. try working on that

How do you folks become ‘unhappily’ married?

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