Anyone on here who wants to practice being social ? Sometimes I wonder what else to chat about besides weather? Sports are dead at the moment and political views can divide so what other topics do you discuss with coworkers?

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Best is to ask open ended questions along with follow ups so the other person does all the talking. Sometimes you get lucky and their interests align with yours so the conversation gets to a normal flow. If not, tell them they are very interesting but you have to use the restroom/talk to your boss/some other excuse...

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My favorite go tos are pets and media (podcasts/movies/tv/books)

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Know nothing about sports so usually silent in those convos anyways… 😕

What! Nerdiness is so cool! 😎

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