Are there any programs for federal employees who are first-time mothers or parents? I'm a single mom and am struggling to pay for everything I need for the baby and post-birth. Is there anything I should look into?

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Local buy nothing groups!!! You can scan to see if anyone has posted anything you need & make a post about what you could use. These groups are amaaaazing

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I came here to post this. Buy nothing has been wonderful - clothes, toys, you name it.

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Look into pregnancy resource centers near you. I'm sure other denominations run these, too, but the Catholic Church runs lots of these around the country and they're stocked with formula, baby food, diapers, wipes, etc. Recipients are not at all required to be Catholic.

I volunteer at a local diaper bank—it’s a wonderful program and not at all judgmental about your situation.

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