At what age did you stop ‘going out’ in the classic sense. I.e. pregaming, going to crowded bars and trying to meet new people, etc. I feel like at my age (26) I still feel young, but many friends....

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

My cousin is in great shape physically and I know he could get through that part of basic training/boot camp but don't know if he could handle all the yelling because of past trauma he's been through. Thoughts / advice?

Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

Would you recommend Sedona during Christmas or San Diego during Christmas with a 1.5 year old? Entertainment, safety, meaningful experience-focused.

Sedona will be much colder, possibly snowing/icy and will be hiking, hot tub, enjoying the scenery focused. San Diego will be beach, enjoying scenery focused. Both Airbnb options look beautiful. Will also have 60 year old grandparents joining

I spent an hour today sitting with one of my patients getting a chemo infusion. Lonely and weird time to not have his wife in there with him

Why do some muslim men think that career women in their 30s become desperate and will significantly lower their standards? Someone with 3 kids that’s been divorced twice and isn’t even practicing just told my friend he’ll do her the favor of giving her children. The arrogance is mind boggling

Today is my first day back at work (and first full day back in my physical office) after a few weeks off for parental leave. Needless to say, I am struggling to stay focused on anything other than wanting to go back home to my spouse and child.

I know I shouldn't take an emotional temperature on day one, but it has been more difficult being back than I anticipated. Any tips for navigating the waters for the first day/week/month back?

This is an emotional dump rn. It may be lack of social interaction but I'm really frustrated lately. I feel like I lost last 2.5 years of my life with ongoing lockdowns and job instability in the first half of the pandemic. I was 28 turing 31. I get good dates but -ve self talk
Inflation is high & coming from a low income family where you're supposed to help your parents is driving me nuts. Although I make a good salary, after rent, car insurance, there isn't much left (unfav currency exchange)

I’m excited to marry my SO in a few months but I have severe stage fright and do not like being the center of attention. Any advice on how to reduce the anxiety and just enjoy the day?

I hate that I still want to hear from him. I just have no idea what I want him to say or what I want to say. I feel like if I get anywhere near him he’ll be able to sense my pain. Are we sure the no contact rule is only 21 days? I feel like I need 21 months.

Weird question alert: When did your daughters start “developing?” Noticing signs in my soon to be ten year old, which is a little concerning, as my sister has huge...tracks of land. Would rather my daughter didn’t have to deal with what I remember she had to. Anyone remember?

It's an exhausting time to be working in this industry, to say the least. How do you prevent taking your work home with you?

Asking for a friend - anyone staying in a marriage just for the kid(s)?

It's not like the marriage is terrible or unhealthy, but they would take an out if not for having had the kids.

Anyone else experience this? I'm wondering how common this is.

People with tiny kids (baby/toddler), how are you coping/entertaining your little buggers? Ours is turning 1 very soon and we have a push trike in the mail, but thinking of inside activities too.

Salam. 23M here - all my life I’ve had my back on our faith - never really prayed but had imaan (I guess). After bouts of depression from girl problems (🙄), issues within immediate family, being disappointed expectations I had for myself, etc. I’ve been working on bettering my situation over the years. Faith is the only area where I think I need more guidance. Having trouble relating to friends or family about this. Anyone else been thru something similar? How have you connected back to Islam?

I am overly stressed that my parents are visiting and staying with me for 5 weeks. Paid them for a cruise but still have 4 weeks. I am dreaded to live with them 4 weeks without social engagement cont'

What is your favorite parent communication tool and why? I used Seesaw this last year and it worked fine, but I’m considering checking out class dojo. Thoughts?

Guys, this busy season is terrible - I miss my kid so much during the day. Also I feel like I am disappointing everyone at work, my spouse, my kid. There is not enough hour in a day

What's the perks of working for clients such as Microsoft (commercial MDM).

Is techincal degree mandate to move to MS?

Thank you!

How much does Accenture and Deloitte pay a consultant in Germany and Netherlands?

Having 2.5 years of experience in manual testing and automation testing using selenium webdriver with java. Can you please refer me.

Hooked up with a manager form different line of service and now I came to know he is joining my team.

Anyone who joined EY recently and received the welcome kit?

Hi Folks, my counselor informed me I am being moved from Senior 1 to Senior 2 but rating is progressing. Is that good or bad ?

Does anyone else just have one day a week (Saturday for me) where they are just a full zombie and have to decompress and sleep from all of the burn out?

What is the salary range for a Senior manager in VOIS? I have been offered 32 but i think they can offer much more

Hi fishes,

I got a offer of 26lpa(23.5 fixed and 2.5 variable) from genpact and 21 lpa (20 fixed , 1 joining) from epam, not sure which one should I join. Please if someone can advice me which i should join keeping ressession in mind. Thanks in advance@

What is the best answer to “Do I look fat in this?”

Isn’t 100k base pay too little at a boutique asset mgmt firm? 4 yrs buy side experience, started at the same firm straight out of college.

Hi guys

Holding offer - Bosch(17LPA) - Coimbatore
ZF(16LPA) -hyderabad

Total exp:3.5
domain AUTOMOTIVE (MBD)


Which company should I choose??
current CTC: 10LPA

Should I negotiate?? pls suggest

If you've worked at multiple FAANG companies, what's your secret?

Senior attorneys at v100, how common is it for attorneys who start at small firms to lateral to biglaw? Have you worked with any? Conventional wisdom is always that if you don’t start there it’s hard to “trade up”. My coworker and I just did it to two different great v30 firms, and I’m wondering if it’s really that uncommon? Just out of curiosity. We’re not special counsel with special niche skills or anything, just associates. Pitfalls to beware? Positives?

Anyone else getting spammed for "law firm in house/gc's office" roles and know what the deal is with that? Not really looking to do it but curiosity

Random partner asked a litigation-related question to a partner I frequently work with (i’m a transactional associate). My partner cc’d me and said for me to briefly look. Asked the library. They got me a great case. Sent it back. Now the random partner is asking for more cases in another circuit.

I haven’t done caselaw research since 1L and this isn’t even my practice… wtf do I do (I am fully utilized in my normal work and have a few deals closing soon…)

Anyone ever register an expensive car in Montana under a LLC to avoid taxes?

Can i ask for joining Bonus after accepting the offer letter? Had a conversation with HR and was being advised it is difficult but will see what can they do.

What is the career hierarchy in Allstates India. Any idea about Associate Manager role there ?

Hi Fishes,
Can you please suggest which company is better in terms of work life balance, work policy, Project amongst Infogain, Wipro, Capegmini? All are offering somewhat same salary.

What should be my ideal in hand pay? Stats:
Domain: SAP manufacturing full stack developer
Experience: 6+ years
Education: B.tech (🌝)

Is the 50-50 male-female hiring rule fair? In many offices the applicants are 80-20, thus women are 4 times more likely to make it. Isn’t this the definition of discrimination?

Hi - Is anyone aware of IT officer role in Canara Bank? My friend who works as a developer in TCS was offered IT Officer role in Canara Bank. How is the work culture and work life balance in Canara Bank?

Hey anyone who recently join accenture please do provide your input
On how they handled remote on-boarding and what's your experience about Onboarding and projects their?

Need 11 likes to unlock direct DM. Please help!

Hi Fishes,

I have been offered a role of Regional Planning Manager (Business Analyst profile) at Tata Tele Business Services; any idea how the work culture is? Looking for some honest reviews.

What is the best time to change your company with relevant experience if you have joined as a fresher?

People planning for masters?

Consider the parameters in comments and share if you think I missed any.

Hi folks,
Currently I'm working in
Tech stack:
dotNET Framework (Partial MVC)
AngularJs (JavaScript, jQuery)
SQL Server

I'm thinking of switching to python and DS, is this the right decision for me, if yes How can I start, little directions would be appreciated,
Thank you
Total Yrs of Experience: 2.5yrs
CTC: 5 Lacs

Does anybody know the company Techolution
Is it a good company I was offered 30LPA here
And I am confused to join Techolution or Legato which is giving 26LPA.

Yoe:5.7
Technical ,: java fullstack

Hi All (🐟),

I am 24 and I am currently working on a copy-paste project .
I want to work as a Java-Microservices Developer, how should I prepare my Resume and learn my skills to switch to a different organization?

Will they hire me if I don't have a work experience with the technology?

Thank you in advance.

Having 7.5 yoe with Java spring hibernate, springboot as tech stack, Which one to consider blackrock as associate with 25.5 lpa as fixed plus 2.5 as variable or Nagarro as staff engineer with 30.5 fixed plus 1.5 variable

Does Accenture request documents such as latest payslip and current employment even before interview is scheduled?

Regarding ITR filing

Have any one done FNO and still filed ITR 1?

Was the return processed.

I have a mere turnover of 10L and loss . I had to go for tax audit.but what happens if I file IT1and do not mention that loss?

Any suggestions??