Guys, this busy season is terrible - I miss my kid so much during the day. Also I feel like I am disappointing everyone at work, my spouse, my kid. There is not enough hour in a day

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I hear you. Some days it's like choosing who you're going to disappoint.

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I left ey and few months ago for the same reason. Life on the outside is amazing. My kids are too important yo not see and interact with them everyday. I took a fairly lateral industry position for a small (very small) raise, but let me tell you, I have never been happier. It is totally worth it. Who cares how much you make for your kids if you can't enjoy life with them...and not on vacations or off times. I wanted to be there all the time.

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@ey1 I'm contemplating a permanent move for better hours, pay, and other benefits. All for them.

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That’s why I am planning on quitting.

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Seriously contemplating industry until my kids are grown

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It's the worst! Just spoke to my kids for the first time in over a week today. (Out of town client with long hours and no real breaks while they are home and awake.) Usually I at least get commute talk.

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