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I don’t see where is the problem here? If you’ve haven’t omitted any other large item you have 10k+ of leeway. Either you have a lot of expenses or need to save a bit less but nothing alarming
Welcome to life with excessive student loans and a child! Spoiler alert, it sucks.
Look - sometimes you pay more (bonus time), sometimes you need to decrease monthly payments, but your salaries hopefully grow (increase payments again) and daycare costs go down and go away as the child grows up.
Good luck if you have a second though. :/
-signed someone who had $240k in student loans 5 years ago and is down to about $60k. 1 child, trying for 1 more. 38 years old. Been paying loans for 16 years and counting..hope to be paid off in a year.
You make 270k combined - where is all your money going?
Mortgage - 35k
Student Loans - 36k
Child care - 28k
Total of those 3 = 100k.
Assuming you take home like 200k after taxes and other deductions. There is still 100k left for groceries, eating out, maybe some travel, etc.
Unless you have some other large expenses, I don't see why you'd need to cut the 3k monthly debt payment
$3831 in just mortgage plus utilities plus insurance
I don’t have advice on how to cut back on expenses. But check with your lender for the mortgage and student loans to see if they allow partial payments without repercussions. If yes, then start making 2 payments per month (your monthly payment divided by 2). For example, for your mortgage, you would want to make a $1,400 payment about 15 days before the due date and then another $1,400 payment close to the due date. This decreases your total balance twice in a month, which will lead to you paying way less interest over the term of the loan (since the interest is calculated on a daily basis). We are able to do this with mortgage, auto loans, and student loan payments. This has saved a ton of money in interest, and it allows more of the payment to be applied towards principal. If you don’t think the current payments are sustainable, you can always look into refinancing (even though the rates are high right now). Credit unions normally have better interest rates.
You may need to cut back the student loan payments for a bit while you start to figure out how you will manage your money and new expenses with a child. Once you have a better idea, you can readjust the loan payment to be higher again.
You are maxing out retirement and you are surprised you aren’t left with much? I would save a little less if you need money for more urgent things and find a cheaper daycare. $2300/month seems a bit high.