Dating a teacher. He’s broke. He’s hot. He cares about his community. Dump him or keep him?

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

Family luddites ask about my work and immediately behave annoyed when I start to answer.

My SO adds very little to our relationship. She has a dead end job. I cook. I work. I oversee finances. I plan trips. She doesn’t have a voice in the relationship. I’ve asked her to give her perspective but she always defaults to mine bc she thinks I’m smarter/worldly. She feels intimated by me and my social circle. Lately, I’ve found myself thinking for her. Anticipating her wants and needs and then adjusting my behavior to meet them. Which she appreciates but it’s frustrating 29M 27F

Fellow Asians, how do you deal with racist parents?

Just moved to Chicago and looking to make new friends.

Age 26, if that matters

Why are sibling relationships so complicated? We live in the same city. 23M w 21M bro in same city. We’ve always clashed, got closer in 2016-2019, then in covid started fighting and not being close. 2021 summer we got into some bad fights where he said some hurtful things that made me kind of hold a grudge until our fight in September. 2022 we’ve gotten a lot closer and only minimally clashed but still even tho we share personal things sometimes and have more mutual respect, cont

Hey guys, planning to shift to Kolkata on 1-Aug-22.

Please guide me on best place/area to reside with small family.
I am coming from Hyderabad with family and a pet dog and looking forward to a good society with amenities.

Thanks!!

How did parenthood change your relationship with work? For the men and women

I went through my gf’s phone and found out she had a crush on my best friend when we first started dating (over a year ago). I suspected this at first but it hurts to have it confirmed and see her telling her friends about him. I’m not sure how I should feel since I went out of line to look through her phone.

Why do we always tell people “Be the best version of yourself before starting a relationship?”
I feel this is wrong…first, if you’re someone who constantly wants to be better, this doesn’t work. Also, what happens when you’re going through things and you’re not the best version? What happens is…the going gets tough and then one person leaves the other.

Spouse and I have been sleeping in separate rooms since couple of years now. They say they can't sleep together because of my snoring and it bothers them. How have other couples dealt with it?

People without children should be allowed to make a ‘No Baby Registry’: a list of awesome things they want for themselves. And their friends with children should all buy them something. Who’s with me?

Married men of this group,
What advice would you like to give to the younger generation who are single/about to get married?

I hate it when people try to bond with me over trauma when their trauma is that they fight a lot with their spouse or they didn’t get the promotion they wanted. How is that staring death in the face??

Why is it that a lot of couples I know living in big cities are in open relationship?

How have you dealt with anti-vaxxer friends? I have one and I’m not mad or angry at them. I’m just disappointed that I’ve associated myself with someone like them. 😔

I want to retire but I'm in my early 40's. My husband thinks I'm selfish because most of our luxury spending money comes from me. I'm burnt-out in this business and don't want to work anymore. I don't mind not going on luxurious vacations anymore and cutting back on our expenses. I keep seeing my loved ones die at fairly young ages. I want to enjoy what is left of my life. I'm perfectly fine with scalling back. What do you think? Am I being selfish for wanting to be a housewife?

Seeking advice either from anyone already working for US GOV or any advice on how to get into it. I’m interested in working for IRS or Veterans with pm work. Any advice?

I also want to help my dad get into a permanent GOV role before he needs to retire, he’s been rejected by gov roles and can only work travel roles with fema, I don’t want him traveling as he’s getting too old and I just lost my mom a year ago. Any help would be appreciated!

One day i get to work from home and the crappy internet bails out on me #whyGodWhy did my roommate forget to pay the bill again?

My attention to detail, on a scale of 1 to 10, has to be a 3. I can't find the fix. What would you rate your attention to detail? And if you started out bad, how did you fix it?

Anyone preparing for Australia immigration? Where are you at the process?

Is there any good training institute which offers placement to become a data analyst/business intelligence analyst? I wanna switch my job.

Hi I don’t work at Deloitte but requesting some advice. On h1b right now, plan to go to grad school next year. Planning to pause h1b switch to f1 and then switch back after grad. Has anyone done this?

Talked to an M1 in Deal Advisory (FDD/AAS) that makes $110K in HCOL. Does that seem low/high/in-line with what you would expect?

If Elon Musk buys Twitter, what are the chances that those of the left will stop buying Teslas especially if he reinstates Trump.

I guess I’m officially being off boarded team doesn’t care no one has said anything … I’m a ball of nerves thankfully my old company wants me back — feeling so sad and angry and just incredibly nervous

This veteran just finished his last final (on the first day of finals week!). Commencement next Monday. Will take a few months off to hang with my family and start at PwC in the fall! Time for a beer

Morning! Being laid off sux, I been down this road 5x in my career it never bets easier.

Dust off contacts and make your rounds
* if you’re in a good position to take time off do some, seems we all need a mental break anyway

What are you getting as a hedge for this potential Russian bs? GLD? SQQQ? Any other good ones to look at?

Max beating Micheal Schumacher & Vettel with 14 Grand Prix wins in one season , GOAT 🐐

Hi all i have almost 2 years experience in azure data engineering stack. Can anyone suggest any company that hires for this experience along with 3 months notice period?

What are some brands with an in-house agency? Looking to make a move to client side.

Question for the group. What keeps you from freelancing/ working as a professional services contractor? Are there particular aspects that prevent you from diving in such as concern of gaps between projects, difficulty getting paid from clients, or do you enjoy the w2 position you’re in currently? Would love to hear your thoughts!

Any idea why certain of the larger biglaw firms do not allow descriptive associate website bios unlike the more middle v100 firms?

I want to buy a new home and then sell my current home after we are moved out. Current home is a VA loan, is there any way to buy the second house on a VA loan?

What’s a “science fact” that gets shared around that is very much not true?

Meetup this weekend?

Which firms are you guys from?

Hello Atlanta singles. If you are dating and looking to meet likeminded singles in the Atlanta area, we are organizing a dinner this Saturday 14that 6 pm. Send me a message if you’d like to attend.

My ex bf hooked up with my gay best friend

Any women want to join me and my cute dog for a walk in the new westside reservoir park?