Do you think consulting promotes a culture of cheating on your SO or consulting attracts those individuals already prone to cheat?

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It attracts people who are more concerned with money and status compared to family and fufillment in your career. Lots of consultants are super vain
Those type of people probably cheat more

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We all have equal chances, consulting lifestyle just makes it easier

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Don't know why people are hating on OP... it's quite common in this industry.

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Neither

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Project much?

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Eh it definitely happens. A lot.

Absolutely not

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Exactly ^ I know of at least 4 people

Yourself included OP?

Haha yeah you're all quite defensive - no I have personally not, but have witnessed it plenty. Both men and women.

Do you think most people cheat?

I've definitely seen it but it doesn't seem as prevalent as you'd think given the opportunity ...I'm not sure it's more prevalent than in the general population but who knows...

OP you need to run with a better crowd

The Young and the Restless: Why Infidelity Is Rising Among 20-Somethings

Yeah, OP. Wtf? Monogamy for life!

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