Does anyone else hate it when people address an email with just “Name,” and no “hi” “hey” “hello” beforehand? I read it as being confrontational

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Yep! I just try not to take that personally, but yeah def feel it.

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Original Poster,

Congratulations! If this bothers you then you don’t have any real problems.

All the best,

S&1

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Original poster :)

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Go to your safe space.

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Ahh! I just wrote an email doing that, only did it because it was to a senior partner and wanted to be more formal 🤦🏻‍♀️ regretting it.

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Generally this is done down, not up :)

That was the thing at Accenture when I started 4 years ago. It's disappeared and I can't say I miss it.

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omgggg I thought I was the only one who feels that way! I hate that, yes to me its confrontational.

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Suggest we all assume best intent. If I’m trying to be hostile with you you’ll know it.

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No

It depends on who I’m emailing. I work on a team and so we all just do that with each other. For people I infrequently email, I’m way more formal

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I always start with a "Hi XYZ,..". If a manager or someone at a higher level than me first starts with a 'Hi Name', and then in the subsequent emails starts with 'Name, or Name:', I find it acceptable.

I don't like when people start an email without a hi/hello in any other scenario. I had a customer who I had trained emailing me back and forth with no salutation in even a single email. I responded in the same way.

Also noticed that when people perceive that they are not taken seriously, or need to exert influence, they tend to use this style more often.

How is this confrontational? I’ve also read it as just casual.

I always put: “Hi <addressee>”

Or if I’m doing multiple people, I may end up using @Addessee because I want clarity about who owns what

I think it’s common courtesy to open an email with a Hi or Hello.

What most fascinated me in this thread is the variety of responses and degrees of caring about how an email starts.

Agree Mc5. Also as someone who is rather aligned with OP’s sentiment - MY takeaway is not to be “offended” by a Name: salutation.

A lot of sensitive people in here

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