Feeling so overwhelmed with the end of the year approaching. There are so many loose ends to tie up, and I (ridiculously) feel wrong for taking time off when my to do list is never ending. I’m having a hard time enjoying today (US holiday) because in the back of my mind there are so many things I have to get done. I know it’s stupid but I have a hard time putting it out of my mind.

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It's not stupid. I know exactly what you mean. It's hard to fully engage and enjoy family time when you've got work stress hanging over you. The good news is, the year will be over before we know it. We just have to get through this next month with (most of) our sanity intact.

I understand how youa re feeling. I have been feeling the same way truthfully. I feel like I am drowning and we are short staffed on top of that so there really is no catching up.

Oh no you have to find a way to disconnect and enjoy yourself even if it is for a few hours.

I think it’s all about finding balance. Work will always be there, but the holidays are a time to enjoy being with family. Get a few hours of work in if you need to, but give yourself a set time to clock out and be present with friends , family ,etc .

That’s a hard thing to manage

I am better at it now but only because I have a different outlook on my work

I don’t worry about my work at all when off the clock

I left the bench to be able to stop worrying about it

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