For those who have transitioned to industry, do you view your manager the same way you would your military officer?

I’m fairly young (30) for a Sr Mgr at a major defense contractor, and I have a new employee who’s a navy reservist. Recently, I asked him to do something he forgot to do, and he responded: “my mistake, sir. I have no excuse, sir. I will take care of that now. I apologize and it won’t happen again”.

I know he’s being respectful with the “sir”, but the formality is just so new.

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I think it's excellent, he's accepting his mistake and is looking to fix it once and for all, and being super formal at the same time. I wish my employees were like that!

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